Another ttc after mc

[Lostmymind26]

I know there are a lot of these threads but thought I'd start a new one for people like me who struggle to jump into an already established thread!
I'm 27, married with no kids yet, had a mc at 13 weeks after seeing the heartbeat at 8,10 and 12 weeks (baby had slow growth hence all the scans!) and two chemicals in the last two months 😒
I have currently become a mad woman and have a box full of baby things (some of which I was for the baby we mc so now is no good as was Christmas centred ☹️)
If anyone else is going crazy and just needs a rant or to know they aren't alone I'd love to chat :-)

Hey! I find it hard to keep up on the busy threads but everyone is so lovely. I'm 34, MMC in May, on my 3rd cycle and 6 days late but still getting BFNs. I feel like it might go crazy either way, pregnant or not!!xx

Like I might**

It does make you go crazy doesn't it!!!! I have spent a small fortune on tests 🤦🏽‍♀️🙈 I'm just starting my cycle again 🙄

Me too, I feel like I waste so much money on tests but I know I won't stop! We currently have lots of baby stuff that my partner's brother gave us but I don't even want to look at it xx

Yeah we are the same, I got loads of wedding vouchers that we had to use so I bought baby stuff when I was 10 weeks and then I lost at 13 weeks, now I don't even want to see it so it's all in a box in the loft :-(

AF came today so I'm back to square one too. Hugs, hope things get easier for u xxx

You too 💐 I'm trying to see this as the beginning of a while fresh start in Ttc and not test early this month! I'll probably cave and test 🙈🤦🏽‍♀️ hope this is our month!

Cross everything! It's too tempting to take tests, just can't help myself

Sorry you all find yourselves here

I had a miscarriage in July (found out after some bleeding at 9 weeks but the pregnancy had stopped at 7 weeks) and it's been just over 4 weeks since I had surgery. So I am now patiently waiting for my period to turn up so we can start trying again.

Finding it particularly hard atm as I have 2 close friends who are both heavily pregnant and I just so badly want to be pregnant again!

Anyway I just thought I'd join in as another person who is also feeling a little crazy!! Xx

I'd like to join please. I find the other threads too busy to keep up with. Sorry for your losses.

I'm trying for dc2. Had an early miscarriage in March, been trying since January. I have long cycles and everyone I know seems to be pregnant at the mo! I'm fed up of sex and waiting. Logically I know I'm incredibly lucky to have an amazing dd (she's 2 and a bit) already. I need to be much more patient!

Hi @snowy29 welcome to the crazy thread 😊 I know exactly what you mean I have two friends atm who are pregnant. It sucks doesn't it! I keep thinking when they say what milestone etc they are at that I should be too :-( hope your starting to feel physically better at least :-)

Hi @seven201 :-) being patient sucks!!! I keep thinking when I'd be due if I fell this month etc :-( realistically I know i still have a good chance of a healthy pregnancy but there is still that nagging doubt in my mind!

Anyone else found that people who were extremely sympathetic during the miscarriage seem to have completely forgotten about? I have two pregnant colleagues. Today my boss at work said 'oh I hope we don't get any more people off pregnant now because we don't have the staff' :-( she must know I'm trying again and also that I should be pregnant now! And a close friend just said could I not try again soon as she gets married next winter and she doesn't want me being pregnant/having a newborn to affect the hen and wedding!! I'm one of 8 bridesmaids!!!

:-(

I know what you mean. The tact has long gone! Three of my friends also had mc and are all pregnant at the moment. Whenever we meet up it's just baby baby baby talk! We didn't do that when the first got pregnant, it increased a little after the second but now three of the four of us are, it's like there is nothing else to talk about.

My boss, who knows about my mc, keeps saying she really wants to get me drunk as she thinks I'd be a funny drunk. I think she's doing this to try and get me to either say I can't as I'm ttc or thinks maybe I am pregnant again and so I'll announce it. It's really rude and annoying and she's just not taking the hint of my pissed off face and 'no, I don't think so' comment each time.

@seven201 god that's really crap :-( one of the girls at work miscarried just after me and has gone on to get pregnant straight away. Now she keeps saying how much she hates being pregnant etc. I know she is well within her rights to feel whatever she feels as she is being sick constantly etc but I just wish she would stop telling me about it. I'd do anything to be in her position!

As for your boss it's weird isn't it that now they know you've miscarried they think it's fine to ask about stuff all the time. Mine was warning me to let her know if I'd have to be off as we have no staff?! I'm dying to be pregnant so it's just a kick in the teeth to say oh no not yet.

Welcome @seven201 and @snowy29, nice to meet u!

Yea, some people seem to think you get over it in a month :( It does get easier though xxx