How do i bring up the subject?

[StayingUnknown]

Hello,

No judgment please as this is a very sensitive topic to me.

so three nearly four months ago i was forced into an abortion by my boyfriends parents. this has obviously had a very big effect on both me and him but we have managed to come out of the situation stronger. My boyfriend is currently in the process of saving up enough money to move out of his mothers house and we have been discussing moving in together.
Now the other day we had a serious discussion about the abortion and how neither of us wanted to go through with it (we have also both got tattoos in remembrance of the baby); and i informed him that i would like to get pregnant again reasonably soon in the future. whilst he did not reply when i stated this he did inform me the subject didn't freak him out. now i really want to bring the subject up to him again as i really do think its something we need to discuss further and i really would like to know if that's something he would want.

How do i bring up the subject to him?

Thanks

You keep asking this and the reason people aren't telling you is because they can't. This is a very personal situation and you know your bf best. If your are in a secure and loving relationship you should be able to talk about anything so just give it a go. There is no right or clever way to bring it up which will get you the response you want, you just have to go for it and see what he says.

In my opinion (and you don't have to agree) if you are not living together yet it doesn't sound like you are in a position to be trying for a baby. Move out, get settled and used to living together and then think about having her children.

I wish you all the best for the future 🙂

How old are you OP? Sorry you’re in this situation 💐

I agree with BoBo90 how you and your partner communicate with each other is very personal and specific to your relationship. Maybe go for a walk or something and speak about it then? I always find it easier to have a conversation if you're walking side by side with someone.

There's a thread on this board for women who are waiting to start TTC if you want to join? it's called "(Still) waiting to TTC" or something like that.