Hello ladies, I'm new to the Conception board here at MN
I have a 13yr old ds and a 2yr old dd by VBAC. We have major financial and property issues which is causing dp to be off sex, but I want our second child together and am getting resentful of these issues, wishing that he could see the urgency, but trying to be patient for him. I conceived both my existing children at the drop of a hat, so am very fortunate and grateful. But can't help worrying that I might not be so lucky next time.
What I really want, I suppose, is for encouragement from ladies here who've had the biological clock ticking in their ears!
I've led a healthy life, don't smoke, don't drink much, am not vastly overweight and apart from the stress we're under, I'm in reasonable shape. I'm also trying to sort out a pelvic floor that get's no excercise via bd just now so that I'm better prepared for pg.
How do I stop this worrying about not getting chance to have what I always thought would be my last child? Oh how I wish we'd done all this sooner so that I could have had as many as I wanted..