Thought I'd get some input from the ladies on this forum.
We are trying to figure out when to start our TTC journey.
I'm currently 28 and he is 32.
We are getting married at the start of October and going on a minimoon in the UK straight after. Then thinking of having a proper honeymoon in Japan in April. That's when we originally decided was the best time to start. Which if we fell pregnant immediately would mean due date would be in December. Which would be perfect.
I am locked into my job until November 2019, because they paid for my studies. If I left any earlier I would need to pay them back 3000£. But we are hoping to move away from London and buy a house in Yorkshire straight after. The idea is to downsize so that we can live off his wage for a while.
But I am now reconsidering our timeline. I realise it can take a while to get pregnant. Si maybe we dhould start earlier? Ideally I would like to time things so that I am on maternity leave when we move to Yorkshire. I don't want to start a new job and then leave on maternity leave straight after. And I also don't want to wait any longer because at 28, I can hear the clock ticking. I always imagine I would have my first around this age.
I am also trying to lose weight to reach a healthy BMI. And that will realistically take me at least 5 months.
Any advice? When would you start?