Hello,
please no nasty comments to what i'm about to say!
So I fell pregnant roughly three months ago and was pushed towards having an abortion by both my parents and my boyfriends parents. neither him or i wanted to get rid of child but felt we did not have a choice. now i know that it is quite soon and we are still in the same situation we were before, i.e. living with out parents etc. but i really want to get pregnant again. i hate what i let them convince me in to having a termination, and i know i cannot make it right but i want a second chance. i just don't know how to bring up the idea to my boyfriend as i don't want to scare him away. I'm quite certain that if i did fall pregnant again he would stick by me but i'm worried since its so soon he will say ive planned it and will break up with me. obviously i want to speak to him about it first as i dont want to go behind his back as it would be his kid too but i just dont know what to do. any advice would be helpful. thanks.
p.s. we are both 21 years old and are in full time work.