Hiya I’m new here and I’m looking for advice. Me and DH have a 10 month old baby boy and now we would love to see a BFP again. I’m looking for advice as I’m so confused and beginning to get stressed out. So here’s the situation:
I came off of the pill between the end of Jan and start of feb, I know that means we haven’t been ttc for very long but I’m starting to wonder if I’ll be able to conceive again. Around 3/4 years ago I was diagnosed with PCOS and was told it could affect my fertility, which made me believe I wouldn’t be able to get pregnant, it was this time that they prescribed me to pill and it helped to regulate my periods. But when I first met my dh i wasn’t on contraception as I wasn’t active and I did get pregnant almost immediately, within the early months of our relationship(this was accidental) but sadly that ended in a miscarriage and convinced me even more that I wouldn’t be able to have a baby. But I began taking contraceptives again, until after about a year we decided to deliberately ttc and fell pregnant with DS and it was a smooth one thankfully 😌
But here’s the problem: since I came off my contraception and we decided it would be a good time to try again for #2 my periods have been so messed up, I’m trying my best to keep track of my cycle which is usually around 35 days long and ovulation, but the past 2 months have been odd and disheartening. Last month I missed my period and first tested on day 1 as I can usually predict them, but got negative, so I waited a few days and at 4 days late took another test but got bfn :( my period came 2 days later; then this month I’m on day 2 right now, have taken a test this morning and again got a bfn.
Am I testing to early? Is there something wrong and should I go gp? I’m concerned and I don’t know how to deal with this, it’s as if my body is playing tricks on me. Can anyone help?
P.s sorry for long post but would really appreciate some advice or to hear from someone who’s been in the same sort of place. Thanks