Confused

[Mummybear18]

Hi I'm 8 weeks pregnant and wanted some advise not after any negative comments just advice, I was in a relationship fairly new about 6 months but had a one night stand with someone else silly mistake but the dates work out that it could be either of of them now I'm worried I can't stop thinking about it, my partner was in a previous relationship for about 6 years and he told me they had tried for a baby but we're never successful, but then his ex went and had a one night stand once they split and got pregnant so I'm wondering if it's the same this time round with me and maybe he can't have children ?

Have you told your partner? (Or do you plan to?). I suppose all you can do is get a paternity test. I can't imagine how stressful this must be for you x

Yes I have told both of them as I couldn't keep it to myself and it's only fair they both know the truth I feel awful for what I have done but my partner does understand now, I really don't want to get too stressed but it's so hard not to, and just waiting for another 7 months is going to be hell I think x

@Mummybear18 first of all congratulations and good on you for being honest from the get go. Look up pre-natal dna testing. I'm not sure what the risks are but it is available so you may be able to get it done sooner rather than later.

Thankyou 😊 I have looked it up but it does cost quiet alot and it's sometimes not 100% accurate, i have thought about it alot to have peace of mind but just don't think it would be worth the risks, I know I'm just going to have to wait until baby is born it's just playing on my mind alot right now x

@Mummybear18 - at least they both know, that's something. I bet it will be torture, but like you said it's what you'll have to do as it's not worth the risk. Wishing you all the best xx

@KimRobs87 thank you 🙂xx