Hi all
Im so excited so needed to come on here!
So, long story but when I met my husband he didnt want kids, and I was on the fence but always liked the idea of being a mum. Anyway cutting a very long story short, here we are and he has now told me that he wants us to have a baby, he said that he thinks I will be a fantastic mum and he thinks that he will be a good dad with my guidance. He said he wants to raise a child to be successful and happy in life and wants to give it all the best things we can afford when it comes to education and support. Ive never heard him speak this way. His newborn niece has prompted this I believe.
My pill was due to run out this week and when I told my husband this weekend that I needed to sort my prescription....he suggested I dont bother! eeeek! so he doesnt want to rush things or plan things or us start to get too hung up on ovulation dates etc. but suggested we let nature do its thing and see what happens.
So I am very excited, I want to tell everyone but I dont want to tell anyone because I dont want the pressure of people asking if Im pregnant yet etc.
anyone on here in a similar position? any advice for me?
Im hopeful that we will conceive this side of christmas really, Im 35 now, 36 in January so hoping age doesnt affect me (too many internet horror stories)
anyone come off the pill and fell quickly?
anyway, I can relax now. I dont have a mum to tell, and my friends will be so excited for me that I cant wait to tell them, but hopefully that will be when Im pregnant and I can share my good news then :)
have a great day everyone x