Nutty fun loving TTCers [thread #2]

[TwittleBee]

@thisisouryrfx18 thank you for bringing us together to have this thread but as we have reached 1000 posts we need a new one now!

So let the nuttiness continue

Calling all nutters (TTCers & Graduates) here
@Cakelaur
@italianwifey
@lolacola13
@susso
@DaisyMay25
@GoldilocksTheGraceless
@HidCat
@BDFT

And everyone else (I'm sorry I was lazy and couldn't be bothered to scroll to much through last thread!) and anyone new!

My Update:
TTC #2
Cycle 9
CD 7
Currently waiting scans & tests to find out whats going on with AF, pain & other bloomin horrid symptoms.

FX for everyone with this thread. Baby Dust to all and happy BM

@lolacola13 so sorry... such a horrible thing to go through

So so sorry @lolacola13 x

@lolacola13

Thanks so much guys. Tested again on ic and it's barely visible not that it got v dark on those anyway but still shitty to see. Have one more frer to use tomorrow and I'm not buying anymore . No bleeding or anything yet. But am I correct I'm guessing my hcg levels need to fall down to zero before I start to bleed?

@lolacola13 when I had my mc I bled first and my levels were at 6 two days after, I think they need to be at zero to ovulate.

Ah yes ur right.. what happens if I don't start to bleed by next week? Iv had a feel and cervix is a little lower and just white creamy discharge few cramps but nothing to suggest it is imminent. How long do they give it? Have repeat bloods on thurs to see if levels have dropped and she said if I haven't started to bleed by end of next week to give her a call. She's been very good my gp have to say they are fab . V hands on .

@lolacola13 you sound like you've got an amazing doctor! When was your af due? My normal periods resumed exactly four weeks after my mc. I'd think you will have bled by the end of next week, but I guess they'll investigate if you haven't.

@lolacola13 I am so sorry to hear this x x x

@DaisyMay25 they are fab, she was initially calling as she was looking at my referral to midwifery and wanted to know if I needed a prescription for vitamin d or not.. that's when I was like well now Iv got u on the phone it's not looking good doc :(.. she was very good . Bloods taken an hour later and back for more next week. Does anyone know when I start to bleed do I count that as cd 1?

@Wowthisisreal thanks so much hun. You guys are the best . Xx

lolacola13 I'm so sorry sending you so much love. Hope you're coping okay lovely. I really do hope you have a cycle return to straight back to normal and you do get a sticky one xxx

Should my af not have came by now? im just gettin confused and annoyed now!

@lolacola13 it might help to count it as CD 1 but assume ovulation will come shortly after your negative hpt so you might seem to have a longer follicular phase. I really hope things settle quickly for you Hun.

Forgive me @HidCat I'm confused lol. I usually ovulate cd 17-19... and have a 31-33 day cycle. Still no sign of bleeding and tested completely negative about ten mins ago with fmu . Just wish it would come now tbh

@lolacola13 as soon as you start bleeding I'd count that as CD1, I know what you mean about it just wanting to start now. I don't think it'll make a difference to your ovulation that much. It's funny how we spend so long wishing AF not to come and then there's times when we can't wait for it! How're you doing anyway?

Bit rubbish today tbh.. gutting the house out lol Iv gone on some mad cleaning crusade there are bags everywhere and piles for charity and bin lol. Feels therapeutic in a way. DD and oh are in the garden but I'm keeping myself busy indoors . I'm grand one the next in floods of tears I know biologically there's not much to mourn but I was 5 weeks preg yesterday with pos digitals during the week and still no bleeding today and neg tests yest and today it's just limbo land of waiting for the bleed . It's more I'm mourning the loss of what could of been, what was to come . Enjoying our holiday at 22 weeks in September when ur in the nice bit of pregnancy lol Having a big bump by Xmas ready to burst etc . Eugh it's just so shit.first time Iv experienced a loss like this and it's not nice . My heart goes out to anyone who this has happened to I'm only thankful that I wasn't further along . 5/6 weeks is enough thank u xoxoxoxox has anyone got any lovely news to cheer the board up a bit we've gone all melancholy lol xxxx

@lolacola13 I miscarried at six weeks and I know exactly what you mean. Just because you was five weeks does not mean you didn't already bond with the little bean. Mourn all you want, it's a terrible thing to go through and deal with it however you want and need

@lolacola13 It is really horrible, no matter how early.

Bit of fun for you - hubby and I are on a flat pack building day! What the fuck do we do it to ourselves 😂. So far we've put things on backwards, in the wrong place and worked out that corner wardrobe handles are a nightmare 🤦🏼‍♀️. Oh and moving stuff around meant that my 5 year old found a box of toys from when he was a baby and promptly started playing with them in my building space. On the plus side, we haven't filed for divorce, yet...

Haha oh @HidCat what a fun bank holiday it sounds like you're having!

Oh gosh lol! It is the quickest way to a divorce indeed haha oj... I have lost count how many flat packs my oh has ballsed up over the years , he lets on there is spare parts and those bits weren't needed lol erm yes they are

All done! Barely even an argument (it's a bloody miracle 😂). Just having a nice chillax before we start the clean up.

Does anyone else find they can't crack an egg without thinking of cervical mucus? I mean I even read something yesterday that said you can use egg whites as lube 😳

@HidCat hahhaha. I read the same. Not sure how hygienic it is!! 🥚 🙈

@Cakelaur well I suppose it's one thing you didn't try! Can you imagine the aftermath? I'd love to know if someone had actually tried it (no intention of doing so myself but it's so out there I'm curious!) how it went lol.

I wanna say I've seen someone on here did!! Haha. (On MN I mean!) but it was a while back! It's defo one step too far for me!!!