Over 40 and failed ICSI

[hopingforutopia1]

Hi all

I've already posted on the infertility board but am posting here for some traffic and support.

Long time Mumsnet lurker as I've been trying not to be too obsessive over this process but now need a hand hold. We've just completed our first ICSI cycle and it resulted in a BFN. I suspect the reason is my age (nearly 42) and DH has severe MFI. I was rather laid back throughout the process, even managing the injections with my fear of needles but am now heart broken. I and my eggs are aging by the minute and I feel I will never become a mum sad Where do we go from here?

Hi there,

I don’t have any advice I’m afraid, but I’m sure some lovely ladies will be along soon with some words of wisdom. I just wanted to say I hope that it works out for you and can sympathise with the feelings of disappointment and fear for the future.

Best wishes xxx

Hi OP

Do you have any other embryos from the cycle frozen that you can use next time round? How many did the put back in during the transfer? The chances of ICSI working first time aren't in anyone's favour - another cycle would be the next step I reckon, and if they only put one embryo in last time maybe try with two this time if you have them?

I have a 9 month DD from IVF so know to some extent what you're going through, and know that it can work out!

Good luck x

Hi NewMama, 6 follicles; 10 eggs retrieved; 8 mature and 4 fertilised. All 4 made it to 5 day blast. 3 looked a bit dodgy so they opted for a 5 day transfer of just the one. None frozen

Thanks for the good wishes RD15.

I got pregnant at 42 and I just want to give you hope that MANY women can and DO get pregnant at your age. It’s heartbreaking getting a BFN but hang in there - good luck x

Thanks mattsmamma. Was it your first pregnancy? This would be my first.

It was my second - I’m hoping for a third but I’m 48 now!! Admittedly I think it’s harder at my age but I would have every reason to be positive at your age for sure . xx

Hi mattsmamma thank you for your positivity. Its very much appreciated. Good luck and fingers crossed for no.3!

Thank you

@hopingforutopia1

how did it go for you?