it's exactly two years ago today that I came off the pill to start ttc

[wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe]

I remember it cause it's the first of may - wouldn't have remembered otherwise lol.

but it's strange - I'm not feeling sad that we've not conceived, I think that the initial excitement of ttc for another baby quickly faded to sadness at being unsuccessful and now I just see my life with one ds and I no longer see another baby in my life.

it is sad but I have my ds so have so much to be thankful for iyswim.

mind you I did say to dh that if I couldn't have another baby I was going to get more animals instead

Are you stopping trying then? That worked for me. Stopped, within a week I was pregnant. I think the acupuncture might have helped too though.

Sorry it hasn't happened yet but never say never eh?

hellow wannabe.....
i just wanted you to know i had read your post and am thinking of you today. I am glad you seem to have found some peace with your decision.
Remember am available to chat anytime (about ttc/not ttc/or anything else!)
Take care honey xxxxxxxxx

Hi Wannabe

I know the feeling about not having things go as planned, and then changing your perspective on life. We have no say really when it comes to baby matters.

A puppy or kitten however sounds devine

Either way it works out, you will all be happy together.

It probably will happen now you've chilled about it and accepted it. I hear that so often, it's almos as though trying to hard prevents it.