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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Happy to sad all in the space of a few hours

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ClumsyFool · 21/01/2018 10:37

Had a positive on a FRER this morning and felt so happy, DH was still asleep as I was up really early for work so I figured I’d wait til after work tonight to tell him, I was a bit surprised it showed a line as AF not due until Wednesday, but just had a feeling so tested.
Now though, I’ve just been to the toilet at work and I’m bleeding, so annoyed with myself! If I’d have just not been so fucking impatient and waited I’d have just thought my period was a bit early and been none the wiser, a bit gutted that this cycle was out but that’s it, instead I’m now hiding away in an office on my own crying which is ridiculous as it’s only been a few hours. Trying to give myself a talking to and dusting myself off to go out and crack on with my day. Please tell me to get a grip and to stop being so silly!

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AyeAyeFishyPie · 21/01/2018 10:43

The bleeding may not necessarily be a bad sign. How heavy is it?

hugs to you.

Marriageoftrueminds · 21/01/2018 10:44

Oh Clumsy, I’m really sorry. It doesn’t matter how long you know for, it’s still just as important. I only knew I was pregnant for 2 hours before I started to lose but it took a long time to recover, be kind to yourself.

I don’t want to give you false hope but it COULD still be ok. It wasn’t in my case but lots of women on here report bleeding and their babies are fine x

physicskate · 21/01/2018 10:44

But I don't think you are being silly! It is a perfectly normal reaction to such extreme disappointment.

Is there any possibility it is implantation bleeding? Both of my chemicals tested negative before bleeding started....

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ClumsyFool · 21/01/2018 10:45

It was more than spotting, probably a light-medium bleed.

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ClumsyFool · 21/01/2018 10:52

Thank you for replying to me I really appreciate it as obviously I don’t have anyone that even knows about it to talk to right now with being at work and I really need to try and pull myself together so that I can get back to work. So annoyed with myself!

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PrimeraVez · 21/01/2018 11:13

I'm so sorry, it's so shit isn't it. I had a realllllly faint BFP at home earlier this year, had a positive blood test later that day, but then started bleeding in the waiting room when I was waiting for the follow up HCG test 48 hours later.

No wise words I'm afraid but you're not alone in experiencing this. Do tell your DH and know that it's ok to feel sad/disappointed/angry.

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ClumsyFool · 21/01/2018 12:07

Thank you, have had a cup of tea so back to work now which will keep me busy at least for a few hours. Thanks again for all of your replies

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Marriageoftrueminds · 21/01/2018 12:10

I fell pregnant again soon after my first loss (which was an ectopic pregnancy). Fingers crossed this is your body showing it is ready to conceive, and the real deal is coming soon x

Amyl89 · 21/01/2018 12:36

I'm sorry you are going through this, but please try and have a little hope. I'm 6 weeks pregnant only found out last week, to then start bleeding a few days later. I still am but have had a scan and baby is there with heartbeat. Still scared and nervous but trying to stay positive this pregnancy continues.

Best of luck

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