So I’ve been with my partner a while now. At first we were all up for trying, he brought it up first as a I have a child from a previous relationship. He’s 2 now and has a handful of setbacks -seizures, possible autism and he doesn’t speak at all. I can see my partner getting frustrated but trying his hardest with my little boy. But lately he wants nothing to do with talking about kids. I’ve brought it up sporadically the last few months and I just get hit with “not today”. Our sex life is fine so it’s not us it’s him not wanting to try. He said 6 months ago we’ll try in a year and he recently mentioned that these things can’t be planned. I’m a visual. I need to see a time line with progress but he just doesn’t want to talk about it ever. It hurts but I’m so sad it’s turned into this over night. We stopped trying because I felt too much pressure and I said we could just stop trying but carry on and have fun. A week later he insisted we stopped all together and started being safe. My heart is broken and I feel like I’ve done something wrong.