Frankielamb,
I detest docs who just fob people off in such a cavalier manner. It does the patient a big disservice.
At 2 years of ttc without success there is likely to be a fertility problem with either one or both of you equally. Both of you should be tested thoroughly to ascertain the cause of the underlying problem.
With regards to your periods they would certainly be seen to be irregular in nature. Such problems are often caused by hormonal imbalances; a common culprit in this regard is a condition called polycystic ovaries or its related syndrome PCOS. Both are very common - has this possibility every been mooted with your good self.
Some docs are ignorant when it comes to either the above so it may not have registered with your Doc that you could have this.
A blood test if taken should have measured both your LH and FSH levels. If this had indeed been done both levels should have been compared against one another, it is only then that a problem can be seen.
I would return to the GP asap and insist that you are referred to a gynae wihtout any further delay.
Do not be fobbed off anymore!!!.
I would also counsel that you stop using the ov kits and temp charting methods with immediate effect; both of these are both a waste of time and problematic to interpret if your periods are irregular.
Clomid is a drug used to make the ovaries work harder; it is often given to women with ovulatory problems like PCO/S. However, you need a diagnosis first and foremost and you need to go all out to obtain this. You need a gynae referral and do not take no for an answer.
Also clomid should ideally be given under a gynae's supervision; you need to be monitored carefully whilst on this drug treatment. Also many GPs do not have the time or expertise to handle such gynae issues; you need to see a gynae now.
HTH and good luck. Be assertive!!!.