Frustrated

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So had a bit of a barny with hubby this morning. I'm in my "green" zone and last night he just wasn't up for it at all. That was day 2 of the fertile 5 on my charts but last night I had no EWCM. That has arrived this morning. Is it just me or am I getting too wound up about the fertile days? I don't want DTD to become a chore either or to lose the loving out of it and for it just to become all about the baby making. Anyone else like this? Feeling a bit down about it.

How long have you been ttc?

Got lucky first time in April but that ended in a MMC in June. Am 39, feel my time is ticking away.😓

It became a bit of an issue for us when we were TTC number 1 and DH said there was so much pressure on sex that it wasn't enjoyable m anymore. This time round, we've agreed that we're trying, but DH has no idea when the time is right, so although it's all premeditated in my mind, he doesn't feel pressured. Try not to get stressed about it as that won't help. Good luck!