This seems such a silly problem to have and if I had to advise a friend on this problem I'd tell them to not be so stupid but it's really holding me back.
I'm happily married with no children, been with my husband since I was a teenager, I have a very good job, I own my own house and I'm in my late 20s.
I feel that it's the right time to start a family and my husband agrees, however the thought of what my mum will say is holding me back.
My mum has always made it clear she didn't enjoy motherhood, she felt that it ruined her life and wasn't worth it (gee thanks!) she literally has nothing good to say on the matter. She's keen to remind me as much as possible that I'll hate it, my whole life will change and it's not as good as everyone makes out. She avoids any conversation about it and always tries to put me off.
The thing is, I know she'll be hurtful when I do get pregnant and I'll never be able to tell her if I'm struggling as a new mum or not enjoying pregnancy, she will say 'I told you say' 'get used to it' 'you've made your bed' sort of thing and I'm very sensitive to her comments.
It's ridiculous even as a write it, I'm nearly 30 for gods sake!
Anyone else been in similar situations?
I'm so jealous of pregnant friends who's mothers are over the moon or badger them to get pregnant 😔
Please help!