I had a mmc in March and passed the pregnancy in April, almost 2 weeks later. It was a traumatic miscarriage resulting in a haemorhage and emergency D&C. I was terrified to get pregnant after the miscarriage but i'm at the stage now where although i'm scared, I really want to try again possibly from next month. I am due a period any day now but i was going to have this cycle and wait for my next cycle to TTC. I' also 38 so can;'t wait to long really as it took 8 months to conceive this last pregnancy.
The doctors told me to wait 3-6 months after the loss so next month will be month 4. My husband wants another baby but is really worried about what happened happening again which i know is no guarentee that it won't.
I also have had 3 previous caesarians so this pregnancy would be my fourth so I know that adds to the possible complications however it is so strong in how i feel. My surgeon who delivered my last child told me that it wouldn't be the end of the world if i had another pregnany and i have held on to them words but then I think was the moiscarriage caused by my previous sections?
Has anyone else been in this situation and gone on to have a sucessfull pregnancy? I'm obviously worried about miscarrying again and i am also worried about the risks of a fourth section and this baby would be the last.
Has anyone else had four sections? Also has anyone suffered a haemorhage after a miscarriage and gone on to have a sucessful pregnancy? I just feel so worried, scared and upset about it all so to hear about other people's experiences would be great. Thank you.