Accidentally on purpose

[Ohdeary72]

Trying not to write an essay here as well, I can't be bothered. This is one of those POINTLESS "what do you think" threads I'm afraid so stop reading now if they annoy you so I should stop reading myself.
Basically me and OH have been having a bit of a dry spell the last few months and my new pill was causing me to bleed a lot so I just came off it all together. I'm pretty sure this was on the 10th-12th may. I had a little bleed when coming off of it, but then had sex maybe 3 times during the month obviously unprotected. It's now the 18th June and I've had no bleeding other than I little brown discharge on Wednesday. I know no one can help me really and il have to get a test but tbh it's been a help just writing this down instead of it going round and round in my head. Obviously I know it's possible but it just seems unlikely to me as we only DTD a few times, but where is AF. I dunno, thanks for listening

Haha!

You DTD.
You didn't use protection.
Sperm + egg might make baby.

HTH.

POAS and let me know though!

it's not unusual for a period to be irregular with stopping and starting.

You already know the best thing to do - take a test and maybe review your birth control.

Also - I think it's a bit unfair on your partner if he thinks you are on the pill and you're not actually taking it.

It's possible as it only takes the one time. Sorry you're stressing.

You could be late for any number of issues. POAS if it'll stop you from worrying too much. Or try and wait it out.

Hope you have clarification soon and are okay.

Yeah see this is the thing, a friend of mine came off her pill and hasn't had a period in 8 months. I tend to never be that lucky though and bleed at any given opportunity🙄 Sorry I just need to talk about it even though there's no way anyone can really help. Even though this wouldn't be good timing for us (saving for mortgage and already have 1 under 1) a little part of me wants it..but am worried about OH as we've said we're not ready and this is my doing as I didn't mention I'd come off the pill (only because we were having 0 sex at the time). With DD I had MAJOR symptoms before my missed period and now I have a few little things but think that's just because I'm over thinking it

alcohol I know it sounds awful and I feel awful.. we haven't been getting on for the past few months and before this past month hadn't DTD for 2-3 months so I just come off of the pill. In the moment of him making a move I was so taken back and in moment as it hadn't happened in so long that I didn't think, then didn't want to say after a cause an argument and then it just sort of snowballed. I do feel awful

I'm in the same boat! I came off the pill due to being sick and tired of constant periods on it, me and the OH haven't been DTD often as we've been rocky and not getting along very well, and we had DTD a few times at the end may/ start of June. I hadn't mentioned coming off it either and I feel awful and need to take a test to rule it out but I had slight spotting last week on and off, and being used to heavy cycles I can't help but think I may of caught on. I also had EXTREMELY tingly nipples (sorry TMI ha ha) in the last few weeks. But I think I'm just over thinking it also

I know it's not a nice situation to be in but IM SO GLAD I'm not the only one. How would your OH react?

I'm really not sure to be completely honest. I know he wouldn't be happy as like I said we aren't ready financially and we always said we would wait until we are both ready

When are you both going to test?

I took a pill for 6 weeks last year and it took me about 5 months to have a period. Have you tested?

Testing this morning

Good luck OP x

BFP

Congratulations!
I hope it goes well with your DH when you tell him x