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June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP

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bassetmum · 08/05/2017 10:22

Hi all,
Thought I'd start the June bus as af arrived this morning. Biggest kick in the teeth as my sister baby bombed me on her first cycle this weekend and I am now on cycle 10. Trying for our first too.

Hopefully this will be our months!!!

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TheGrumpySquirrel · 10/06/2017 21:08

@BlueeSpottyTiger excited for you tomorrow!!

MotherofBoy · 10/06/2017 21:18

Looks promising slinky! And hoping good news for you blue!

I'm ok over here. Temp spike today so did a test but bfn. 9dpo so easily too early but no symptoms.

Here is my chart for comparison!

June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP
Slinkery · 11/06/2017 07:08

Even more confused today, my temp has dropped back down. It's hard to tell what this means because I only started temping after ovulation so I'm not sure where my baseline would be. I was wondering if this could be implantation but 10dpo seem late for that? Unless it was the second BD we did on day 22, then I would be 8dpo now. Urgh!!! 😖 also I am due AF on 14th and normally I have really tender boobs for a week before, but I have nothing now. They are bigger but not hurting at all which is v unusual for me. Has anyone ever heard that a lack of PMS can mean pregnancy?

June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP
MotherofBoy · 11/06/2017 07:25

Bfn this morning and temp following same pattern as previous months so think I'm out... feeling v down about it all Sad

DT2016 · 11/06/2017 07:43

Aww sorry to hear that Mother It's so hard. Hang in there Flowers

How are you doing Blue?

My AF is due today. Was expecting temp drop, but instead it went up slightly. Tested on IC but BFN. So annoying. I want either a BFP (preferably obviously!) or if not, AF to hurry up and get here so I can move on to next cycle.

BlueeSpottyTiger · 11/06/2017 08:15

Sorry mother Sad
dt2016 sorry for you bfn! I'm feeling the same. I know i can't be pregnant.. just had a negative frer at 14dpo and starting to feel like af will be here any second. I have no clue what has gone on. One thing i know for certain this will be our last cycle trying until sep as i dont wanna be less than 12weeks pg abroad as i had 3 lots of bleeding with dd and it was all very unnerving!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/06/2017 08:27

Sorry about the bfn blue. I could have sworn there was a line yesterday.

BlueeSpottyTiger · 11/06/2017 10:37

There was!? So weird!! anyway af has just started finally..so onto cycle 5 (but cycle 2 after CP) af due 6th July so im sticking around here. You ladies are all lovely and i want to see you all get bfp's! X

CinnamonSwirlGirl85 · 11/06/2017 11:02

Sorry Blue. It's miserable when you get your hopes up. I'm also sorry you need to wait a few months before trying again.

Sorry to everyone else who's had AF show up. I'm due AF on Wednesday and have started getting the usual symptoms (cramping and feeling weak/light headed , plus feeling pissed off and tearful and like I will kill the next person who talks to me). Fertility Friend has guessed this cycle will be 26 days, rather than my usual 28-29. I wonder why?! At least it means I get onto the next cycle quicker!

MissWitch · 11/06/2017 11:20

Hi am I too late to join? I didn't want to hop on the July thread as AF/BFP (slight possibility) isn't due for another few days. These are my stats:

Ttc #3
Age 26
Cycle 1 and a bit (had my copper coil out 4th May, had AF 13th May)
Bfp/AF due between now and 18th June.

My cycle varies between 28-35 days. Yesterday was day 28 so I tested today as AF isn't here yet, it was negative Sad Pretty sure Im not pregnant as don't feel it (my last 2 pregnancies I had very sore boobs and cramps but I only have mild pms type symptoms right now) but you never know! Let me know if I'm better joining the July thread as I know it's late in the month!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 11/06/2017 16:09

Anyone had clear implantation cramps and can tell me what it felt like?? Felt quite a few stabby pains today ..

DT2016 · 12/06/2017 06:54

Sorry Grumpysquirrel Not sure that I've ever really felt implantation cramps. Fingers crossed for you 🤞

Something odd is going on with me. I'm 14dpo, my lp is normally 12 days. Temp still above cover line, no sign of AF and BFN on IC. If temp still up tomorrow and no AF then I might bust out an FRER. Wtf is going on?! I guess I could have ovulated later than I thought, but seems unlikely given temps and OPKs. Very frustrating!!

sallywiththegoodhurr · 12/06/2017 07:11

Sorry to hear AF turned up @BlueeSpottyTiger Flowers

AF is due tomorrow, no idea how many dpo I am but last month AF came on time at 16DPO.

I've relaxed about it all this month, I'm not even sure if we dtd in the right time frame Hmm

TheGrumpySquirrel · 12/06/2017 08:09

Please humour me.. FRER at 5dpo like a fool. Small chance I could have ovulated earlier but probably not.. I can see a thin line but might just be the indent

June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP
June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP
June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP
juneybean · 12/06/2017 08:23

I'm sorry grumpy I can't see anything but it's very early!!

LollyBeesLife · 12/06/2017 10:22

I'm so sorry for the AF arrivals and BFNs. Hoping the next cycle is much

Congratulations on the BFPs too. Seeing these gives me hope. 2BFPs so far (i think) and still 16 days to go, so keep positive ladies.

I am trying so hard not to symptom spot. With DS1, I literally almost lost my mind SS every month. I'm trying to take it easy this time round and avoid testing till AF is actually due. Easier said than done, but I have avoided buying any tests in the house. This'll probably all change a few cycles down the line.

I'm 11dpo and just waiting for Thursday/Friday when BFP/AF should be due. The 2ww always goes at snail pace for me.

As a random side note: Its 10.20am and I could eat a pizza. Nothing to do with TTC, but simply because I absolutely love pizza Blush

Slinkery · 12/06/2017 10:51

Sorry to all who are getting no BFN :(. I am now 11dpo and got a BFN yesterday at 10dpo. My temp has gone back up today however and I am due AF tomorrow. The main thing that's giving me hope is that normally about a week before AF I get horrendous pain in my boobs, it's bad enough that I can't sleep well. I have no pain what so ever now though! My boobs are bigger and heavy but absolutely none of the pain I normally get. I have tried to google whether lack of breast tenderness can be a symptom but there isn't much out there. I feel like surely if I was preg they should be hurting... Otherwise I've been feeling really crabby today, snapped at a colleague this morning 🙈. I feel like AF is coming but this month does feel different. I'm going to see if AF is late and try again in a couple of days. 😥 good luck to everyone else waiting for a BFP, it's all so stressful

Timpani · 12/06/2017 11:29

I tested today at 10dpo perhaps! But obviously a BFN!

TTC #3 age early 30s
CD 24/29
DC1 IVF/ICSI
DC2 natural surprise.

Ava1985 · 12/06/2017 14:50

Hello ladies

Sorry to hear of af getting some of you Flowers

blue I was so sure I could see lines Your tests, fx next month you will crack it Smile

And fx for those waiting in 2ww and waiting to test! Wish you luck!!

I'm 15 DPO today (app says I'm 4wk3d though?!) so still very early on but touch wood everything is looking okay so far! Did a frer yday and got a stronger line and also an asda one again today which is darker, fx!

Have a lovely week, ladies Flowers

sallywiththegoodhurr · 13/06/2017 07:14

AF is due today, no sign yet but I'm sure it will arrive.

I'm feeling thrushy down below (Blush) which I have only ever had when pregnant - I had it pretty much continuously with my last pregnancy, but I'm trying not to let that give me false hope!

FX there is some more BFP's on the thread

Slinkery · 13/06/2017 07:40

@sally Me too, nothing yet. Good luck I hope AF doesn't show!! 🙈🙈

MiniMummy576 · 13/06/2017 08:26

Argh I caved yesterday and took a test - 10 dpo and BFN. I was hopeful because I was really tired and emotional all weekend, but it was probably due to working a 16 hour shift on Thursday.
Still symptom spotting like mad - DH has told me to stop thinking about it, chill out and just focus on exercise instead which helps...but only when I'm working out! #toomanyhoursintheday
Fx for all those waiting in 2ww

Emz01 · 13/06/2017 08:50

AF due for me too today but still no sign, it could be tomorrow as I think I ovulated a day late but not 100% on this. Tested yesterday and it was a BFN so not hopeful.

Good luck to everyone due to test soon!

sallywiththegoodhurr · 13/06/2017 09:35

FX for you Mini

There's a few of us then @Slinkery @Emz01, fingers crossed AF stays away!
I don't feel like AF is about to appear but I never do until 5 minutes before hand Hmm

Slinkery · 13/06/2017 09:54

@Emz01 - I took one yesterday as well, also a BFN. I resigned myself that AF will likely come today. This has been the longest TWW ever!! I have had some cramps. My boobs still not sore at all though like they normally are before AF, so it's an unusual month for me. My temp also went up today which I think is odd. Symptom spotting gives me hope.... 🙈🙈

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