I seriously didn't realise just how all-consuming ttc was. We've 'dabbled' a bit since last January but not really gone for it but following a mc in OCtober we started trying 'properly' this month.
MY cycle is really irregular, although the last one was 28 days and I'm now on cd27 and the temptation to test is just too much. I've got lots of symptoms but while I'm wondering if I'm pg, at the same time I know they could also be af sypmtoms... only difference is I've got extremely sore nipples (ouch, even wearing a t shirt hurts and I can't work out whether it's better with or without a bra on), which I've never had (even in last 2 early pgs)but I've also got sore boobs, crampy feelings, sore back etc which are also my af symptoms! Think the chances of getting pg firsst time are quite unlikely tbh.
The wait until I can test- in fact the not knowing WHEN I can test- is awful. This is only month 1 so I dread to think how bad it'll be after this!
I don't know what the point of this post is but felt I needed to get it off my chest a bit as nobody in RL knows we're ttc and if/when I do get pg I'd like to keep it quiet for as long as poss.
HOw on earth do all you ttcers cope??!!