It's far from ideal - we have only been together for 4 months! I've not done test yet but I just feel that I am pregnant. We were careful (condoms) when we first got together and I had the mirena coil fitted after about 8 weeks pregnancy test on the day was negative but I just feel pregnant. I've had no morning sickness but I didn't with any of my pregnancies but my boobs have gone massive and are rock hard and sore.
Normally I would be delighted but the relationship is early days, I'm starting a masters degree in Jan and he said right from the start he wasn't sure if he wanted any more kids (he has DD10 and DS5). Initially I told him it was a huge deal breaker for me and he explained that it wasn't that he doesn't want any more kids as such, it's just that his ex had a late term (38w) miscarriage and it caused the breakup of their relationship as he went to pieces.
In addition to this - previous pregnancies I have done everything "right". This one if I am, I have taken no pre-natal vits, eaten really bad foods, heavy lifting, still riding my horses perhaps the only thing I have done right is I'm not a drinker.
I don't know why I am even writing this post. I'm going to get a test tomorrow but I'm on a night shift tonight and now I've twigged, I just know I'm going to be stewing about it all night...
I should be over the moon but I'm just shitting myself!