My husband and I are trying to conceive again after sadly losing our first baby in May at 16 weeks. My cycles have taken time to settle down and have been impossible to predict. By chance I took an ovulation test on Friday and it showed a hormone surge. This was nearly ten days earlier than my ovulation calendar had predicted, so it caught me off guard. My husband whilst surprised seemed to deal with it ok and we had sex on Friday night. Unfortunately for the rest of the weekend he couldn't seem to ejaculate. This isn't a problem he's ever had before so we've put it down to performance anxiety. I'm pretty upset as I think it's very unlikely we will have conceived with only one attempt. But I also don't want the same thing to happen next month. I know some people suggest that you shouldn't tell them you're ovulating to reduce the pressure, but I'm pretty sure if I suddenly seemed incredibly amorous that he'd guess anyway! Has anyone else experienced this?