is it wrong?

[fresco]

just had ds, baby 3, but complications...

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is what wrong??

hi there

i used to be on ms when was trying to conceive dd2 and just had ds,6 weeks now but on ventilator, cant breathe on his own.i dont know if anyone has come accross that kind of thing.Howver, i started to really brood again and wonder if that is really wrong, if i shouldnt but cant help it.am i wrong in wanting another one?a babay 4?

sorry to hear that DS is on ventilator .. is he premature? will he come off the ventilator?

I'm not sure what ms is I'm afraid

I think broodiness after just having a baby can be totally normal, particularly when you are unable to have your baby at home in your arms

I wouldn't do anything about it just yet though

good luck

I think you may be broody for your baby that's on the ventilator.

It must be a very hard time for you at the moment, I don't think you should make any hasty decisions.

i think it would be sensible to wait until you have a clear prognosis regarding your DS...he is only 6 weeks old, i think you need to concentrate on him and your other two children at the moment.......wanting baby number 4 might be a knee jerk reaction to having a poorly baby. a lot of women do get strongly broody soon after birth, but it does pass......

at the end of the day, it is yours and your DHs decision, but i personally would wait

i am sorry your son is poorly.. i hope he makes a full recovery x

Hi fresco, no one can tell you whats right and whats wrong... but it must be a very difficult time emotionally, if your son has been on a ventilator for 6 weeks. You may be broody as you have not been able to take him home yet and feel a bit confused. Emotionally it may be better to hold off until your son is out of hospital and then see how you feel...
I really hope you son will be well soon and off the ventilator. Best Wishes... X

hi thank you all
You all are right in your thoughts about brooding and waiting.
cameron indeed cant be held at the moment being on a ventilator with his tube and things and also being frail.So indeed its just a matter of waiting, a waiting game to see if he can get better, or even make it.I keep my finders croosed.