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raddersmrs · 08/07/2016 06:41

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Jodders · 11/07/2016 18:39

I phoned hospital They want me to go there tomorrow at 3pm for a scan unless I start bleeding heavily or am in a lot of pain before then. Keep everything crossed for me.

ps2304 · 11/07/2016 18:44

Jodders, everything crossed for you as well.

Mimilicious013 · 11/07/2016 18:57

Just had a short prayer for you radders and jod .please take it easy and relax (bed rest if possible). Hope everything calms down and the cramps and spotting stop hugs

Glad to hear about the good blood results footprints.good luck this cycle and enjoy bd over your holiday.my cycles are usually 24 days on the dot.once or twice up to 26,.its messed up!!

tee l am so miserable. This snakes and ladders game is taking a toll on me.good luck and hope you get a surprise bfp(we need another)

jem I don't even know what to do hun.ttc is pretty much somthng we can't control, like tee said,getting the wrong side of the coin always

Welcome addicted

Waves to all. My day has just been the worst. Everything just seems so worthless and pointless

SuchaJem · 11/07/2016 19:11

Mimi Sad sorry you are feeling so bad lovely. Can you treat yourself to something to help, like a nice bath or massage or a date with a good friend to talk it through? Hope you are okay.

Wishing you both healthy reassuring scans jodders and radders - everything crossed tightly.

Footprints1 · 11/07/2016 19:57

Jodders/radders - praying for you ladies too. You must be worrying like mad. Hold on to that hope ladies. The fact that you both are feeling sick is a good thing. Spotting is common but can worry u regardless. I can remember spotting up until 13 weeks with my first. The cm was creamy pale pink colour. Hope your scan ok tomorrow Jodders, and radders hope it stops for you.

Mimi- we can only hold on to the hope and believe it will happen one day for us. Maybe you need some reassurance from gp if u have some bloods done. I feel much better knowing. Have you tried Angus castus and b12 tablets? I'm sure it's helped me regulate my cycle.

Footprints1 · 11/07/2016 20:01

Jodders- sorry just seen u say u don't feel as sick- but you had felt like that a few days ago so might just be tiredness makes it worse or you're getting use to it. Hope u get reassurance from your scan X

Footprints1 · 11/07/2016 20:02

Welcome addicted - sorry I forgot to say hi.
Hope u get a BFP soon X

raddersmrs · 11/07/2016 20:03

Thanks for all the kinds messages

Footprints that's what mine is like. I think it's because it's coupled with cramping that I'm worrying more

Jod sorry to hear - hope the scan goes ok.

I feel shattered today, felt sick all weekend so symptoms are still there but I'm realistic in the fact that they can hang around for a while.

Mimi sorry you've had a bad day. What has made is so bad? Hope you're ok xx

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Tee4me · 11/07/2016 20:43

GROUP HUG!!!! Sounds like everybody needs picking up! Jodders/Radders I really think you ladies will be fine, but I'd be totally feeling the same as you. So glad you're being seen quickly and I hope your minds are put at rest.
Mimi sorry you're feeling so down. It's soul destroying isn't it. Thinking with a level head it seems so irrational to feel like that though. I'm really trying to accept that it could still be a while yet, rather than 'it didn't happen this month, definitely next month'. I hate this wishing time away. Over half way through the year and I've spent all of it waiting to reach square 100. It seems like such a waste. Problem is I just can't give up or have a break, that would feel like more of a waste and if just be waiting to restart again! x

raddersmrs · 11/07/2016 20:49

Sending loads of positive vibes and hugs to everyone ttc! You're month will come xxxxxxx

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Parney · 11/07/2016 21:23

I'm really hoping everyone gets through this week. No part of this ttc seems to be easy and luckily the support on this thread is amazing. I'm positive for you both Jod and Radders and I'm glad you're being seen as soon as possible.
Tee I get what you're saying about wishing time away, the journey seems so slow but when you look at how quickly the year has gone so far it's crazy.
Mimi I'm sorry to hear that you're miserable, hopefully you'll find something to cheer you up.
Welcome Addicted. Thinking of everyone else too!

SuchaJem · 11/07/2016 22:20

Big hug girls, hope we are all feeling brighter tomorrow Flowers

Pepper2016 · 11/07/2016 22:44

Jodders and radders sorry to hear your having bad times. My friend had pretty much full on AF for the first four months of her pregnancy. She had so many scans and had beautiful little girl at the end, so try not to panic.

Sorry AF got you footprints, let's make August our month!

Sorry to hear you are feeling down mim and tee, we will get there.

Sorry about bfn Jem, let's hope it's just late to show Smile

Pepper2016 · 11/07/2016 22:47

Welcome addicted!

Hope everyone else is ok. I've got mad week at work and one of my puppies is poorly so that's making the wait for fertile week go by. Hoping to start BDing this week just to prepare. Cd 6 tomorrow. Getting there slowly...

Jodders · 12/07/2016 07:16

Morning all, sick with nerves this morning. Hardly slept. Seems we are all going through a tough time. Hugs to all. I didn't have any spotting in my bathroom trips over night but maybe that's cos I'm lying down and gravity wasn't in play. I do have light cramps / twinges which are worrying me. Had a small streak of brown there this morning.

Tee4me · 12/07/2016 07:31

Jodders what time did you get up? If it was just gravity holding back any bleeding, I suspect you would have seen more of it by now? Brown streak sounds promising. When I had the early mc, the cramps were unmistakably intense. I would say light ache/cramps are more likely to be down to uterus stretching for growing baby.
Radders, what did last night/this morning hold for you?
Feel so sad that you guys aren't getting to enjoy your pregnancies x

raddersmrs · 12/07/2016 07:32

Good luck today jod. Let us know how you get on.
Not cramping this morning and no spotting. I use the stick finger up there method rather than waiting for it to show in knickers because I get a better idea!
I didn't think of gravity though so will see how we go also cramps might start again later so don't feel out of the woods. But feel ok as I know tomorrow morning I will have confirmation.

Any more testing this morning?

Hope people feel better today xx

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raddersmrs · 12/07/2016 07:33

Pepper sorry to hear about your pup - hope they're OKSad

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SuchaJem · 12/07/2016 08:14

BFN on IC Sad ffs

Guess I'm waiting for AF now. Really thought this might be my month. Really didn't think I'd be going onto cycle 8 without a whisper of a BFP.

Mimilicious013 · 12/07/2016 08:37

Glad that you woke up feeling better radders and jod.still praying for a smooth journey for you guys.

Hugs jem .a bfn is the worst part of ttc hun,eeish!!

I'm on CD 38 now with no sign of af.had lots of conga in hope of kickstarting af (no luck).l think my uterus is asleep!

tee did you try poas today? I hope someone gets good news soon.

Sorry to hear about your puppy pepper

footprints I always wonder If my age is slowing things down but my mom had my brother at 42Hmm

A good morning to everyone

Tee4me · 12/07/2016 09:01

CD26Star13dpo
Ah crap Jem that really sucks Sad
I was angry for a couple of days about the BFNs, but I've woken up feeling a bit brighter and more positive today. No more poas for me, I took my temp again and it was in the lower range. Had AF cramps last night, so just waiting for her to arrive now. Do you still have good symptoms? Still could be too early for you and it was an IC x

Footprints1 · 12/07/2016 12:01

Hope scan was ok Jodders and fingers crossed the spotting has stopped for you too radders.
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Mimi-* did you def ovulate when u thought? My gynae explained that as you get older and approach the perimenopause stage (you can still conceive but it's harder) anything from 35 plus- ovulation is harder to achieve and sometimes takes a few attempts to actually happen. This is what made a few cycles for me extra long as I kept getting positive opks each week where body kept attempting ovulation. Finally at day 36 I ovulated which gave me the cycle of 50 days. So possibly could b happening to you. You could def get seen by gp for any cycles over 40days so maybe try that. They might prescribe clomid and norethisterone to kick start your cycle like what happened to me. The Angus castus def helped too.

Have a very heavy AF, think side effects from clomid. Just hope it stops soon.

Footprints1 · 12/07/2016 12:03

Jem- sorry for bfn, still not out FlowersCake

Tee- hope AF stays away.

Need some good news to Finish this week !

Pepper2016 · 12/07/2016 12:05

Hope everything ok jodders and glad to hear your ok radders.

Oh sorry to hear that Jem but you never know till she comes.

Mim I hope you know what's going on soon too.

Got the vets tomorrow - here's to another bill! I love her to pieces but she is costing a fortune. I hope this will be the last trip there. Think AF is done now thankfully so will try and tempt the DH to bed tonight Wink

raddersmrs · 12/07/2016 13:33

Cramps soon came on... No more spotting though. So who knows! Not long now until we know.

Jem sorry to hear BFn. Maybe still too early?

Just want to get tomorrow out the way then I've finished work too for holidays!

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