Scared to poas

[Allyouneedisloveandadog]

Hi. This is my first post so please be kind.
I came off the pill in November and this is our first proper month of ttc.
AF was due at some point this weekend just gone ( been a bit irregular since coming off pill) and I had a bleed and cramps on Friday so thought that was it starting.
However since that day I haven't had anything else. I have had it stop for a couple of days in the past and then start again but it's been 4 days and nothing!
I really need to poas but I'm scared to which I know sounds ridiculous. A part of me just thinks that I can't possibly be pregnant in the first month of trying.

If I haven't had any more bleeding by Friday night then I will have to be brave and poas. I sound pathetic don't I but I don't want to get my hopes up. This ttc stuff is stressful!

Didn't want to read and run. Nothing helpful to say as it sounds like you already have a plan figured out! And of course you know it absolutely is possible to conceive in your first month of trying. good luck, I hope you get the result you're wishing for!

Have you tested yet? I think it's natural not to want to get your hopes up. If you aren't normally 4 days late there's a good chance you might be... !

Not yet but still no sign of AF. Keep thinking a feel a bit sick but don't know if I'm just imagining it.

Good luck!!!

Looks promising then! Are you still planning on testing on Friday? Can't believe you are so patient to wait that long

Poas please! How can you possible wait?
I tried TTC this month too and AF is due in 4 days, I want to poas now!

I'll just be so disappointed if it is negative. I might test in the morning. I'll let you know!

Will keep my fingers crossed for you!

Good luck!

Totally understand allyouneeed. Come over and join us on the "hoping for a BFP in May" thread. Lots of support there.

A few days ago I was you- afraid to POAS. I think because whilst you don't have that bfn you can hold on to your hope.. I finally did the test Monday (5 days after AF due) and got a positive

Wish you luck. X

BFP!! I'm in shock!!!!

Yeah!!!

Congratulations

Congrats

Thanks! Can't wait to see dh face when I tell him later. I told him on Friday that AF had come so it's going to be a real shock.

Haha, I knew it!! Congratulations!!!

Yay! Fab news. Enjoy telling your DH. Xx

Lovely news!

Amazing! Congratulations! Now pls send that bfp my way

AF arrived this morning so guessing it was a chemical pregnancy. Oh well. At least I know I am ovulating as that was what I was worrying about after being on the pill for so long. Thanks for all the lovely messages.

So sorry allyouneeed as you say definitely a positive in having conceived but must be so disappointing all he same. for you. Xxx

Hugs to you.