DH and I started TTC a couple of months ago. We both have 2 kids each from previous marriages, all conceived with no problems although all in our early 30s (we are now 39 (me) and 46 (him). We both thought that we would conceive straight away and were (probably stupidly) surprised when it didn't happen. We are on day 14 of the 4th month of trying. To try to pinpoint ovulation I started using an ovulation kit and got a definite green light (or two dark lines!) on Friday evening (day 12) and we have obviously done the deed several times since then! Does having proof that I have ovulated mean that all is ok with me? I realise the sperm may not fertilise the egg etc but is the fact that I am ovulating indicative that there probably isn't an issue on my side? DH has read a few articles on older fathers (apparently the risks for men rocket at 45) and we've both managed to convince ourselves it isn't going to happen.