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lissie's test results was too excited, had to tell someone!!!

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merrylissiemas · 18/12/2006 17:03

as some of you know i've been having tests for 3 mc's within a year, got my v swabs back on weds, had bloods on fri, (8 effing pots!!!!) got results of those back today ALL CLEAR!!!! we've been ttc and af is due on xmas eve and FEEL pg, v sick. sensitive to smell and taste, v tired and heavy boobs need as many positive thoughts as pos mners

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babylove123 · 19/12/2006 20:27

Of course you are and i dont blame you! A m/c is hurrendous and i wouldnt wish it upon anyone. I do everything works out ok, lots of hugs

danceswithreindeer · 20/12/2006 09:14

Good luck sweetpea...I'll be waiting to hear x

lulumama · 20/12/2006 09:29

ahem...we talked about testing,,,,,

GO ON GO ON GO ON GO ON!! TEST TEST TEST!

auntie lulu wants to start knitting !

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 10:37

going to town for some "xmas bits" without dh later. just can't wait any longer. my jeans are tight and my boobs are popping out

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MerryMegandSnowySoph · 20/12/2006 11:52

I really really hope you get the best xmas pressie ever x x

asleep · 20/12/2006 11:54

good luck!!!!

Mumpbump · 20/12/2006 12:27

Missed this thread earlier in the week. I hope the test is positive... Will have my fingers crossed for you...

MerryMegandSnowySoph · 20/12/2006 13:19

lissie any news hun??

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 13:24

going up in a min feel sick

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MerryMegandSnowySoph · 20/12/2006 13:45

You will be fine hun xx

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 16:26

bfn. dh and i had a huge row about whether i should test. apparently im obsessed with getting pg again and ive taken all the fun out of it

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Mumpbump · 20/12/2006 16:37

Sorry to hear that... I told dh at lunch that I thought there was an outside chance I might be pg, but that it was probably just wishful thinking so you are not alone in wanting to get pg asap after a m/c... Better luck next time!

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 16:38

i nknow its not going to bring back the babies ive lost, but i just think it might ease some of it iykwim

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FrostytheSnowman · 20/12/2006 16:39

So sorry hun Men, what do they know???????????????????

((xx))

flutturkey · 20/12/2006 16:41

but do remember that your af isn't due to Xmas eve, wait till the shops re-open on the 27th and then if af still isn't here test again.

Good luck.

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 16:42

imtrying to pretend im ok, just to prove a point but i really thought w2e might have got lucky.

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lulumama · 20/12/2006 16:43

babe (((hug))))

so sorry........

taken the fun out of it>>!>!>

ok, he is dealing with this in a blokey sort of way, no?

course you are disappointed,. no need to pretend here..x

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 16:46

im so angry with him. he actually said that with the mcs i was barely pg and over-reacted and im neglecting ds in my desperation for another baby. i just want to cry. then i said if he felt like that we should split up and he said he'd have noah coz no court would give me custody coz of my pnd!!!!!! [angry}

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lulumama · 20/12/2006 16:49

that is nonsense....I had PND...it is an illness...and you are a fantastic mother..he knows it......

hard sometimes to understand that from the minute your find out you are pregnant, even though it is a tiny little dot, it is a baby to you and you have hopes and dreams for that little one...

MerryMegandSnowySoph · 20/12/2006 16:49

What an awful thing to say!!!

(((((((((hugs))))))))))

Mumpbump · 20/12/2006 17:00

As my dh said the other day, he really has no idea what I went through and how my m/c affected me. They really have no concept of what it is like and I imagine that things might be a little strained with all that you've had to go through recently. I would suggest you take a deep breath, pour yourself a LARGE glass of wine (safe in the knowledge that you are not, at least presently, pg) and let it slide...

I agree that the sensible thing to do is to test after Christmas and see what happens then. I want to do a test, but I know it would be negative at the moment, even if I were pg... Very hard to resist!

babylove123 · 20/12/2006 17:29

Lissie (hugs), thats an awful thing to say. Im not sticking up for him @ all but maybe its his way of dealing with the past. Maybe being pg again so soon is something he's finding hard to deal with. Usually men say hurtful things when they cant accept the truth.

Hope everything gets better and hope u get the BFP you want

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merrylissiemas · 20/12/2006 18:22

thank you all so much for your support. was so sure id get a bfp and dh is just trying to be practical.

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santasbaby · 20/12/2006 18:28

Sorry to hear your news - although flutturkey is right, test again after Xmas - I'll keep my fingers crossed.

I'm sure that once you have both had time to think and calmed down, you and dh will be able to clear the air. We all say upsetting things when we're angry (men esp ). Hope you can talk it through before to long, and that he understands how you are feeling.

danceswithreindeer · 20/12/2006 18:30

OH lissie
I don't want to give false hope but sweetpea it is still early...
For now, a large cuppa, a mince pie in a room away from dh is probably what you need. I'm sure in a way he is disappointed too but of course it won't come out like that, it will come out as an 'attack' on you (that's exactly how my dh works too )

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