I had a clear moment of yes now I want a baby before we conceived dd and now I'm confused about wanting a second.
This is how it happened with dd. We went away for our anniversary and weren't as careful with contraceptives as we should have been. Two weeks later and my period was a day late. By the fifth day I'd gone from being freaked out to being excited. I bought a test to take the next day but when I woke up my period had started. I cried all day then gave myself a shake and told dp I wanted a baby. Two periods later and I was pregnant.
The problem is that's a pretty extreme and irresponsible way of deciding if you're ready for a baby. I've been feeling broody lately but there's been no obvious extreme moment of yes I want a baby.
So I'm asking how did you know you were ready?