Hi
Looking for some advice or solace to know I am not the only one!
We have a little one and about 15 months ago decided to ditch the contraception and "see what happens" 15 months later and we are still "waiting for something to happen", I have never been diagnosed with anything; but have always had very erratic periods??? Sometimes 4 weeks between and sometimes anything up to about 20! It's driving me mad, I know the usual signs and ways to check for ovulation but when you have NO IDEA where you are its a nightmare!
I did visit my doctor approaching the 12 month mark to express my concerns, to which his reply was pretty flat; I have one child, for which I am eternally grateful, and obviously things work!!!!! I did broach this with a precious doctor as it took a while to conceive our first also; I had a scan, blood tests and all showed nothing??? I am slowly going mad; tonight I have heard another close friend has being surprised by getting pregnant without trying!! I'm getting so fed up!!!
To add to the tale; I recently had abnormal cells detected at my smear and underwent LLETZ for removal!! Now it's advised I wait until I have the all clear; which will be at the check up smear in 6 months time! I understand this, and would always think more about the child I have than the ones I don't if that makes sense; but what do I do? Demand something from my doctor?? More tests?? But as I'm not actively trying this makes me feel like a time waster!!
Any help, advise or words of wisdom will be eternally appreciated!!