Nemo, I have been tcc for so long now, that I have tried almost everything apart from IVF and other ART. I actually had all my miscarriages after my son was born - I had him when I was 41. I also have other children, so I am very lucky, I just would have liked another baby to keep him company (my other children are much older).
I did have a Clearable fertility monitor at one stage, and I found it to be very good it determining high fertile days and peak fertile days. At one point I decided enough was enough and sold it on eBay, a bit sorry I did now, as I don't want to pay the $ (I am an Aussie) to buy a new one. Just this cycle I have splurged on the smiley face opks, as I missed my ovulation so badly last month, that I wanted to have another go with more precision 
As I say, I have been doing this for a long time, and the charting with temperatures has really helped me understand what is going on with my body. Despite what every piece of literature and doctor says, the luteal phase is not always exactly the same and mine has ranged from 12 days through to 16 (though I suspect a chemical pregnancy that time). Mostly it is 13 or 14 days.
During this time ttc I have had blood tests to see how things are and the 21 day test (or 7 days post ovulation would be more accurate) has shown that I have ovulated (I have had it done three times). One month my Dr called with day 3 test results (LH, FSH, Oestrogen) and told me my oestrogen was too low to ovulate that month, but then I had the 21 day test and I had in fact ovulated. So, it isn't always an exact science.
I have experimente with opk's too, and I have had a few cycles where I have had blaring positives in the morning (hen you aren't supposed to test) only to find another op late in the day was negative, so there may be times when the surge is missed.
Nemo if you are interested, I am on the 40+TTC thread where you will find loads of interesting advice from the ladies.