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Who wants to buddy up?!

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sophiabella · 27/03/2015 20:14

Looking for a Mum-to-be to buddy up! I'm TTC number 1 and not had any luck so far, having a couple of months off before we start trying again. x

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firsttimenewbie · 16/05/2015 10:22

violet sounds like we are in very similar positions. Its a frustrating place to be!

Sorry for your bfn sarah but it aint over till AF sings!

Brooke113 · 16/05/2015 11:03

So I'm definitely pregnant, but the cramps are still unbearable, so Im not hopeful, I'm so upset, I didn't feel like this with my other two, will see what the doctor says later :(

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sarah1391 · 16/05/2015 11:13

brooke fx everything goes ok at the doctor Flowers

Brooke113 · 16/05/2015 11:22

I can't bring myself to tell dh, as I don't want to break his heart :( I feel so stupid...

firsttimenewbie · 16/05/2015 11:23

Good luck brooke thinking of you

sarah1391 · 16/05/2015 12:05

Awww brooke theres no need to feel stupid hun. Understand why u cant tell DH but would maybe be better for u if he went to the doctors with u

Issie339 · 16/05/2015 14:21

Congratulations on your bfp brooke, really hoping your cramps are just the bean really burrowing in tight. Hope everything goes ok at the doctors.

Sorry for your bfn sarah Flowers

Another 7 days to go for me until AF due. I'm definitely feeling 'off' and lots of stabbing pains and burning sensation. Really hoping this might be my month

Brooke113 · 16/05/2015 14:26

Keeping everything crossed for you Issie

Doc said what I thought he'd say, wait a couple more days and do another test. So basically it's a waiting game now :( I'm hurting so much though and there's nothing they can do, just wait it out...

VioletIbiza88 · 16/05/2015 19:22

Brooke congratulations on your bfp, I'm sorry it comes with so much pain at the moment though. I have my fingers firmly crossed that you will both be ok, hopefully it is what Issie said and he's burrowing in tight. Thinking of you hun x

Issie are these symptoms different from previous months? Did you have any symptoms with DD?

My symptoms are on and off cramps, mostly get them in the evening, when I'm hungry, but its not in my stomach, its definately uterus area. Also when your about to be sick and you get lots of saliva in your mouth, I'm getting that too. And peeing all the time and also the constant feeling AF is coming on any second?? I have this feeling that as soon as I buy a test AF is going to come as I will have jinxed myself... Issie how are you holding up with the plan of not testing till saturday?

Brooke113 · 16/05/2015 19:40

Violet those sound like positive symptoms :) keeping my fingers crossed for you, when are you testing again? Around the same time as Issie?

Lovelyjubbly95 · 16/05/2015 19:56

Brooke hope ur feeling better soon
Sarah did u enjoy ur ??? Bfp nxt cycle hopefully!
Violet fx! I Do Hope my symptoms r consistent with a possible bfp in a few wks...saw my sister today with her Scan pics :/ happy For her Tho :)

Issie339 · 16/05/2015 20:12

Sounds positive violet all strong pregnancy symptoms.

Yeh I don't normally feel like this...though I've had a swollen throat (viral thing?) the last few days so not sure how much is down to that. I honestly can't remember how I felt last time I was pregnant at all so no help there. I'm going to really try and hold out until next Saturday but I have HPTs upstairs calling me already- eek!!

VioletIbiza88 · 16/05/2015 20:48

Brooke I'm testing on Saturday, going to do our weekly food shop on Friday after OH finishes work and will buy tests then so that I can't do it any sooner. And I won't jinx anything cause AF will already be late by then or will have shown up and then I won't be buying any!! Just got tomorrow off to imagine symptoms and obsess and then I've got long days at work Monday to Thursday so that should keep me busy. Having the day off on Friday might be tricky though if AF hasn't come before that!

What DPO are you Issie?

Brooke113 · 16/05/2015 20:56

Ooh so you're testing buddies Issie and Violet how exciting! How great if you both get bfp's, Saturday could be a fabulous Day :)

I'm sat here with my feet up and a water bottle on my tummy :(

Issie339 · 16/05/2015 21:26

I'm 7dpo what about you violet?

VioletIbiza88 · 16/05/2015 22:23

9dpo Issie

sparklesandfizz · 16/05/2015 22:27

??8dpo here may test fri/sat
Brooke at this moment you are pregnant, hoping you feel better soon xxx

firsttimenewbie · 16/05/2015 23:45

Ooh I may also be testing next weekend if AF doesn't show up before than. Not hugely hopeful she won't be making an appearance but you never know!

Brooke113 · 17/05/2015 06:26

Morning ladies, haven't slept a wink last night because of the cramps, I'm sure I've had some spotting too and this mornings test was alot fainter :( really is a waiting game....check in with you all soon.

sparklesandfizz · 17/05/2015 08:44

Oh brooke so sorry you are feeling so bad Flowers
Keeping everything crossed for you xx
Be kind to yourself and get some rest

Issie339 · 17/05/2015 12:47

Cyber hugs brooke Flowers Have you told your OH yet?

Ooh looks like loads of us will all be testing at the same time!! Grin

Brooke113 · 17/05/2015 15:26

No didn't tell dh, as I have blood in my urine now :( it's not good. Called the nurse at my practice and she agreed that it probably is a cp and I will start AF in a day or so.

Issie339 · 17/05/2015 15:39

Oh brooke Sad so sorry to hear that. Are you sure it wouldn't be good to tell OH so you had some support in RL?

Brooke113 · 17/05/2015 16:16

I just can't bring myself to tell him :( Ive learnt my lesson, I'm not testing early next month, it just causes unnecessary heartbreak :(

Issie339 · 17/05/2015 16:25

Ok well keep chatting to us instead hun Flowers

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