We have been TTC #2 for over 2 years now. I've had two miscarriages, the last of which was in March last year, and nothing since.
I turn 40 this year, our son is 3.5 and I'm starting to think it's not worth the hassle. He sleeps through most nights, is out of nappies, will be starting school in September so we'll save money on childcare.
We've both been tested and are performing as we should. I have regular periods and ovulate at least once a month. I am having a pelvic scan next week and the GP is expecting this to come back fine as I don't have any symptoms of anything else.
I get really stressed out, our sex life is completely ruined as it's dictated by my cycle, I've spent a fortune on monitors, fertile-friendly lube, vitamins & reflexology.
We've always said we want two kids, but should we just be happy with our lot and get on with enjoying that (which we do)? It would be nice for our son to have a sibling and he keeps asking for a baby sister, but I'm not sure if I want one now!