Been trying for #3 for 5months, in that time we had an offer accepted on a bigger house (to accommodate hypothetical third) but in mean time #2 has some health issues we need to sort, and the house fell through (vendors suddenly decided they wanted 10k more) and I decided now defo isn't the right time for#3 and had been going dramatically off the idea especially since new and exciting work opportunities presented and I am more than happy with two. As I only have one tube and fairly sure I ovulated on tubeless side this month, I was sure I would get pregnant this month and we could stop trying for a while, while we defo decide.
Am 10DPO and took a test offhandedly not expecting anything and OF COURSE it's bloody positive! ARSEBISCUITS! I know it's early days and anything could happen but ARGH and eep and yikes! I think I'm possibly secretly pleased but I'm also grumpy as just come round to better idea of not doing this to myself and my family! Bah!