Evening ladies 
Dastardly, I'm sorry to hear your news
I really hope you get your sticky bfp soon
Victoria, sending big hugs to you, you've had such a tough time. I hope dh is sorry for upsetting you and not being honest about smoking.
14dpo here. I didn't take my temp this morning as I had a lot to drink last night! Luckily didn't feel too rough today as I had another big birthday lunch to go to today. Such a busy time of year for birthdays in our family.