not pg or officially ttc but can't be theonly one who feels like this?

[MerlinsBeard]

Had m/c in June and periods been irregular since (15 - 28 days apart) Going by the 28 day rule i am late (was due on sun) but got bfn.

Not officially TTC as couldn't bear the thought of every month wondering is this it. Bfn this morning made me really down........am i odd?

little bump before i go

no you are not odd at all, i had a m/c in august and my af has been regular and due sometime very soon ( have extremley bad Pmt so know that it is on its way) - but i feel sad that i am not prg.

This will be my 2nd cycle and we havent tried at all when we should do. We have decided to "Try" next month.
Perhaps it could be a BFN ? xx Good luck xx

Oh MoM, of course you're not odd!!

Ireally don't know what to say other than to wait another few days and test again.

I know who much you want another baby, so I hope as much as any MNer can hope that you get a BFP soon.

Thank you ladies.

at least i know i'm not odd!

DP and i havent' had the shall we try conversation, neither of us can bear it hence the unofficially trying. More a case of we get round to having sex then we won't use precautions that ttc.

Not at all - or else I'm odd too - that's quite possible.

I had a m/c end of June. I have spend the last 9 years of my life ttc. I do have a fabulous ds of 4. I know that I am supposed to be more fertile in the 3 months post m/c. I do want another baby - BUT I am scared witless about being pregnant. Do why do I feel like crying this morning after a BFN

sending you huge cyber hugs mumofmonsters - and a lot of empathy

The only way I have managed to rationalise this is that IF I had been pregant this month, there is nothing I could have done about it and would just have to get on with it - ie face the demons

Also had M/c in August. AF arrived exactly on time 28 days later. Was perfectly normal so I am ttc this month. Due to ovulate on Thursday but starting to get a bit scared. I think i'd prefer to get BFN than live in fear of losing three babies in one year. When will that fear ever ease? Can't not try ever again in case a M/c again.

its not the fact thati could m/c again i don't think (although that would be on my mind if i ever got a bfp again) its more the fact that although we aren't actively trying, i think deep down i really want to pg again. Thats prob what it is. Anywho...AF arrived this afternoon so think dp and i will have to have a proper talk about when/if to try again.

Thanks for listening to me waffle!!

hi mumofmonsters

I too am not ttc, however every month when I get my Af, I can't help but feel a little bit down that I'm not pregnant. So no you are not odd!