we've been ttc for 18 months and getting nowhere so 4 weeks ago we started a round of tests with our fertility clinic (we're based in the US so its a bit different to the UK) had an HSN, scheduled for a endometrial biopsy and had what felt like 3 pints of blood drawn for heaps of tests.
I signed the "I'm ok with genetic testing" and everything else form not thinking anything of it, more concerned about what the HSN and HSG were going to throw up.
Yesterday I get a call from the clinic informing me that, "oh, by the way you're a CF carrier and you should get husband checked too." If we're both carriers we have a 1 in 4 chance of having a baby with CF.
Reading about it I'm surprised to find out that about 1 in 25 people are carriers amongst Caucasian people, I never realised it was that high!
So, more tests beckon, this time for him indoors (which makes a change
) but this has put a much different spin on our efforts to conceive and throws up a lot of discussion about the what ifs.
I don't really know what to think atm, am mainlining chocolate digestives as a distraction..