Not even TTC yet and already worrying

[dillydollydarling]

Tomorrow I'm having my coil out so that me and OH can start TTC #1. We're getting married in 2016 so we're giving ourselves until July 2015 and then I'll be going back on bc until after the wedding.

I've been so broody for so long, to the point of looking through baby catalogues and looking at clothes and furniture, and I know that's it's unlikely that I will get pregnant straight away. I also know that there is a high chance that I will have to go back on bc until after the wedding. But I just know that I'm going to be so disappointed every single month that AF arrives. Having a baby is all that has been going through my head for months and it seems like there are babies (adverts, actual babies, programmes etc.) everywhere.

How do you cope with the disappointment every month?

Congratulations on your wedding and your plans to have a baby, it is a fantastic way to prepare yourself for an amazing journey.

There a lot of things that you can do to get your body into the best shape for conception, from nutrition to exercise and most importantly not to worry…

I know this may be hard, but it is very important to try and not worry about getting pregnant. This may sound funny, but worry and stress can sometimes delay the process of making a baby.

One suggestion may be to download some meditation tapes (cycle and bloom and others), I found these great when I was trying to conceive ( I also used Acupuncture).

Good luck.
Eca