thank you skbf. I left the last consultation agreeing with the dr in that I should cease fertility treatment and enjoy the child I have (his words!) with an fsh of 20 ivf would not work which I was aware of. Now that I have thought about it the dr has basically written me off just because I had one very high fsh. I'm not sure what to do. I'm from cheshire and I don't think going to a clinic in london would be an option for me....I would gladly do it but my dh would not...he insists we have a better chance naturally...he could be right.
My focus has gone, I am confused and am uncertain if the choices I am making from now are the right ones.
With regards to oestrogen, I have had conflicting info. When my fsh has been high my oestrogen has been low (around 83), my gp said it would be unlikely that I ovulated with such a low oestrogen. However, the good doctor at the clinic said high levels (over 180!) signify decrease in fertility. Who is right? I don't know, my tests suggest the gp is right as when my fsh was 20 my oestrogen was 83 and when my fsh has been at its lowest, 12.2, oestrogen levels were around 130.
I have zita wests book and am working hard to lower my fsh.
I have been trying to research about perimenopause and chances of conceiving naturally while in that phase. zita west says it is difficult but not impossible. Not much on the internet about it. My GP says will take me longer to conceive and my consultant says its nigh impossible, again, who is right
It upsets me greatly that my little boy may be an only child, he would so love a little brother or sister.