feel a bit alone whilst pregnant but I don't know why..

[chiliplant]

I feel really stupid but I'm 14 weeks pregnant with a much wanted pregnancy. I've been with my husband for 10 years(married for two) and I just feel quite low.. He's really happy,considerate,asks me how I am feeling but I just feel a bit empty.
I think I'm a bit scared t get attached in case something goes wrong and I worry how my husband and I will be when we are a mum n dad.
I feel so ungreatfull and horrible because a lot of what my husband is doing is really annoying me..and its not that hes doing that much wrong..its just the things he did before that were a bit annoying are now really really annoying!

I don't get while I'm not walking on air all the time!
Thanks for listening.

You are probably a bit hormonal chili. Cut yourself some slack and don't be so hard on yourself.

We all worry about life as Mum and Dad after the baby is born - it will all work out.

There are so many bodily, emotional and psychological changes occurring and it can be daunting. I remember feeling the same way. It is natural to fret a little about everything being okay.

If you continue to feel worried do raise your concerns with your midwife.

Thanks for replying. I think it probably is hormones. I keep thinking why did I marry someone who I find so annoying! Poor guy..I hope I snap out of it soon!x

Don't worry chili. I just totally blew up at my husband for being annoying for no reason. We're now sulking in different rooms. It's hormones. Plus, while I can see his point, I'm a bit pissed that we found out last Friday I'm pregnant and it's ok for him to tell his parents the next day but I'm to carry on like nothing has happened because he doesn't want me getting excited. Hypocritical sod.

Ooo I sound awful don't i. I love him really!

Don't worry chili. And huge congrats!!!

Chili when I was pregnant (about 20 weeks) dh and I watched Liam Neeson in Taken on a DVD at home. One of the scenes looked like it might be disturbing so told dh to switch it off. He did without complaint and put the DVD back in the box and left it on the table. No I said, it has to leave the house because I was so upset at the thoughts of what might have been in the scene. Understanding dh looked at bit but said no problem and left to walk it back to the shops ( we didn't have a car). It was only when I glanced out the window that I saw he was in a snowy blizzard. I was so hormonal I wasn't happy for the DVD to remain in the house! Mind you I wouldn't have expected him to go out in a blizzard but he said not a word to keep me happy!

it was a rental DVD back in the day

when he got back after being our in the blizzard I was manically chopping celery for celery soup which was my food craving. Ate gallons of the stuff.

congrats too mistress Katherine

Thanks for replying. I think its starting t hit me that it may just all work out (freaking out a bit) but I am happy.
On the plus side he has only annoyed me once tonight and tyhasts by not saying what he thinks if the name adaline!!!
P.s he def wouldn't go out in a blizzard!