Hi all, lurker, first time poster here. Feeling a bit silly but in need of support and no one in real life to turn to about this.
First of all my DH and I are not trying to conceive yet- we have agreed, for lots of practical reasons to start in the New Year. All very exciting and I should be happy with that but lately (probably obsessively reading up on pregnancy and ttc) I feel like just trying in the New year could delay a bfp until who knows when. I am usually quite laid back and an optimistic person but negative thoughts have overtaken.
This month DH and I dtd day 9 in my cycle. I am not on bc and while he usually uses protection we were both a little bit tipsy but we have never done that before and I took that as a sign that maybe on some level we would bring things forward. DH feels like this was a one off and we should stick to our original plan as we have things on that would make me being pregnant challenging. So deep down I know he is right but I have became an emotional mess!!!
It's as if this is my one chance which I know is crazy but I am obsessively looking up pregnancy signs and even though I know chances are slim I am desperate to opals which is still 10 days away.
So not to drip feed some of the reasons we are waiting to ttc until New Year is holiday planned in Nov, and big family wedding of close relative in April (DH is best man)
Sorry for the massively long post, thanks to anyone who read. I know compared to others my 'problem' is so trivial but I honestly feel like my emotions are running away with me. When I signed up for the site and there was a tick box for 'are you pregnant' I thought I might burst out crying!!
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TwixyTime · 31/08/2014 19:40
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