CD42....BFN.....And breathe!

[Elbadram]

Cycle 8, CD 42, stupidly late did my third hpt this afternoon, was laugh in your face, Lilly white negative and it was a FR.

Had a mad half hour of cursing the world, but then had a hot bath and chilled out.

Am home now after 8 days away from my OH and I have missed him so much. Had a lovely welcome home and now I'm thinking what will be will be. I'm either not ovulating for some reason, in which case stressing will do more harm than good, or I OVd much later than I thought and am not actually late yet and AF will be here at the end of the week, or my BFP will.

I am going to really try and chill out, otherwise can see myself being committed by Christmas!

Please remind me of this calm feeling when I'm climbing the walls in two days!!

Oh you poor thing, I can tell you to stop stressing but I know how easy that is to say , the best thing to do is try and occupy yourself to try and stop thinking about it, have you tried temping, I think that is my next plan of action nun October if I don't get my BFP in September , you should jump onto the September bus if AF does come along, I find speaking to others really helps , you never know your BFP may be around the corner x

Thanks for replying Angela. I've not temped yet, going to give opks a go for the next few months. We are getting married end of Nov so luckily have lots to keep me busy, so that followed by honeymoon and Christmas will keep me occupied, think I'd start temping in the new year if no bfp.

I'll be on the sept bus as soon as evil af arrives, just such a pain being in limbo.

Good luck for your Sept BFP.

Hi Elbadram I'm CD 37-38 today and no AF. Did a CB digi last night and it was negative - horrible!! I think we just wait it out and see, but being in limbo is really meh!