2nd Miscarriage in a row

[Cazza1810]

Hi there, I read a lot of the threads here but haven't posted before but I'm not sure where else to turn at the minute.....

I am currently going through my 2nd miscarriage, I was 6 weeks gone.
My first was in April when I was 10 weeks.

I am just wondering if anyone has been though anything similar recently.
I'm not sure how to move on from this, we are being referred to a miscarriage clinic but have been told that tests often don't find anything.....do people honestly believe that this can be "just bad luck" as has been said to us over the last 2 days.

I'm not sure I want to put my body through this again for quite sometime (finding it physically so so much worse this time), but yet I am so desperate to have a little one.
My husband is so supportive but I know he's finding it really difficult to cope this time too.

Any advice or encouraging stories from anyone in a similar position would be so appreciated right now.

Thanks x

I have not experienced this myself but I have experienced my friend who I have been by her side through 4 miscarriages.

Each time with her pregnancies she got a little bit further along and was 12 weeks with her last one. It was devastating watching her suffer and blaming herself. Doctors did not really help or do any tests to see what the problem was so she continued to try for another baby ignoring advice that she should wait 6 months.

She is now 15 weeks pregnant and everything seems fine :)