Chances of Conceiving again (please don't judge me)

[Kourtenay07]

Hi, I don't really no where to start, so hope this all makes sense. I'm 22, and I've just had a Ectopic pregnancy treated by Methotrexate Injection (No tube removal). I was told one of my tubes is damaged but the other one seems fine, and I also found out I had Chlamydia at the same time, which I'm so embarrassed of as it probably the cause of my Ectopic (I contracted the Chlamydia whilst on a break from my boyfriend who I have been with for 4 years). But it is not this that is making me scared I will never conceive again.

When I was 12, I was abused by an older man. I contracted Chlamydia twice, Gonorrhea, and HPV, which I think later caused me to contract warts. I also had a baby at 15, and I've had four abortions. I know this sounds terrible and I have been judged all my life. I know what I sound like, and what people will think, but please, I'm looking for anyone who has a similar experience, or anything, just to give me a bit of advise as weather it is possible I will conceive again, as before my Ectopic I never had a problem, but I think this was the end of my fertility for me.

Please do not judge me I am a changed person from the screwed up kid I used to be I now have my own House, Car, Job and a beautiful daughter and boyfriend. I'm just so scared please help!

Obviously I no this maybe embarrassing for people and admit things like these so please feel free to inbox me xxx

If you've got one tube damaged then that will decrease your chances of conceiving but you still have a chance of course. Obviously if you want to stop decreasing your chances you should make sure to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections from now on and in the future (as well as your current partner).

If you consider that you should have one tube that's working well and the STI's are all sorted then only time will tell if anything else has been damaged. If you are really concerned or you find that after a year you still have not got pregnant then you should speak to your doctor.

I think the advice above re fertility is very good, but if you want to have a nonjudgemental chat with others who have suffered abuse you can't go wrong in the relationships section. They're a good bunch x

Goodness, you poor thing! Why on earth would we jusge you?! You are very young still, despite the tube damage, you have another and are at the peak of your fertility. Sure you will be fine, might just take a little longer. Good luck

Thank you guys x