July Bus to BFP land - Part 2 (and it's not even July yet!)

[TheGrandHighWitch]

Hello Ladies. Just starting this thread in anticipation of the other one running out of room as we were at 972 posts at the time of writing this:

Current stats afaik:

Foscar, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 26 June
cinnamongreyhound, Age 33, TTC#3, Cycle 1, BFP due 30th June
Notoasthere, Age 29, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due 2 July
TheGrandHighWitch, Age 29, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 3rd July
SurreyBunny, Age 34, TTC#2, Cycle 6, BFP 3rd July
MrsExtraOrdinary, Age 34, TTC#2 (DC6), Cycle 6, BFP due 3rd July
lp2014, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 5th July
Nordicmum, Age 39, TTC#3, Cycle 8, BFP 5th-6th July
BrixtonBunny, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 6th July
Mulberry82, Age 32, TTC #1, Cycle #1, BFP due 7th July
Cpt1sock, Age 33, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 8th July
MrsGingerbread, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP due ???
PickledPorcupine, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 8th July
Rainbow, Age 31, TTC#1 Cycle 3, BFP due 9 July
junkfoodaddict, Age 35, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due 9th July
Choccywoccydodah, Age 34, TTC#2, Cycle 10, BFP due 10th July
Pompatrol, Age 35, TTC#2, Cycle 2, BFP due 11th July
Scottishbride, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 11th July
MrsI86, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 11th July
Teadrinkerandatinker 20 TTC#1, Cycle 8, BFP due 11th July
Mistywillow, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 12th July (ish)
Treacle, Age 24, TTC#1, Cycle 5 (mc cycle 4), BFP due July 12th
Ifallelsefailsdrinktea85, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 7, BDP due 12th July ish
Stepawayfromthezebras, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle#12, BFP due 12th July
Aprilray, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 7, BFP due 13th July
KittyVonCatsington, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle #8, BFP due 13th July
Kurama, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle#23ish (5th on clomid), BFP due 14th July
laurano81, Age 32, TTC#2, Cycle 8, BFP due 14-16th July
Wineandchoccy, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 9, BFP due 15th July
Brummiegirl15, Age 37, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 16th July
Toothachereturns, Age ??, TTC#3, Cycle 5, BFP due 17th July
Chillipopcorn, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle#1, BFP due 17th July
XBlueberry88x, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 16, BFP due 17th july
Becter1985, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 17th July
Kimswan1985, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 17th July
Sunshinesaz86, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP Due 17th July
MaMaPo, Age 36, TTC#2, Cycle 2, BFP due 18th-19th July
LadyNovember, Age 25, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 19th July
lavender20, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 20th July
Spinningirl10 ttc#3 cycle 12 bfp due July 20th
theonewiththenoisychild, Age 27, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 20th July
sparkle17, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 21st July
Name ??, Age 33, TTC #1, Cycle #2, BFP due 23rd July
gennibugs, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle 8, BFP due 26 July
BlueSkyGirl30, Age 30, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 26th July
ChandlersFarang, Age 31, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP due ~ 28th July
1moretime, Age 29, TTC#2, Cycle ??, BFP due 28th-30th July
Siarie, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due End of July
Skippingthroughthefarm, Age 20, TTC#1, CD28 BFP due ???
MaybeILina, Age 31, TTC#1, Cycle 5, BFP due ???
MissMrsMummy Age 30, TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due in a couple of months
Fattycow, TTC#?, Cycle ?, BFP due ??
Mrscog, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due ??
1moretime, TTC#?, Cycle ?, BFP due ??
EnglishGirlAbroad TTC #1, Cycle 10 (1after 2nd mc) BFP due ??

AF just arrived :

BlueSkyGirl30

Ditto Treaclepie19. My temp dipped below the coverline this morning but I tested 55 minutes early with my mouth having been open and a fan on next to me . If I adjust my temp using a calculator I am still above the coverline (just) but it is still a dip so no idea what is going on there.

Yep. My job here is done

Congrats Mad and Foscar!
Feel like crying myself , really bad period like cramps just started am in agony and it's only 8 dpo. I've only ever had these things on cycles we've tried to get pregnant and I think I've had a chemical in the end. normally would just have a bit of blood around 13/14 dpo and then start the cramps . This really is shit I've gone through this so many bloody times now . I'm convinced it is my bloody body getting rid of things every time ...

Glad you are feeling better Mrse

Yay foscar congrats!! Worth the wait and yay for honeymoon baby. Wishing you a healthy 9 months!
Congrats mad too!!
Well it is the 1st here so the bus is pulling out the station instyle!

Certainly a chatty 12 hours! Heaps to catch up on.
Fx to all those testing -poas or bleach lol!
must get ready for work I will be late!

Oh nordic- try not to worry so much. Nothing is for sure yet. Sending you a hug xx

Grand, i think mine may be to do with being cold as well!
I also am a bit all over with being cold or hot in the mornings anyway due to a new quilt and odd weather.
Probably more likely I'm not ovulating due to the miscarriage but I'm trying not to think that :(

Haha kitty you do make me laugh! I've put my nipples away now! Nothing to see here!!!!!

Treacle I think my body did take a while to get back to whatever normal was after each mc. Af usually came 4ish weeks later but I don't think I ovulated for a good while. Just give yourself time. We will keep you company.

nordic any chance that the cramps are implantation fx (Hugs) I'm sorry you feel so bad x

Thanks MrsE, i was so hopeful it was back to normal. I've had an af after the mc and all seemed to be ok.

Bleugh.

Sigh, got all 'ready' to DTD in my mind, then ruined it by having a row with DH. Until tomorrow then!

Thanks guys . Am just in horrible agony and it's not like me in a normal cycle when not trying . I feel doomed . I think Ivf wouldn't work either and my body would just expel it like usual . For FS it only took our surrogate 2 cycles to carry our dd to term . I think it's my body not the egg and sperm ...

Well hopefully the weather has affected the both of us Treaclepie19 and we will both get our BFP's soon.

mrscog unhelpful but maybe next time, try having the row with your DH in your head and then you can DTD in real life after you've won the argument .

treacle keep an eye on your temps the next few daysâ?¦so many factors can affect them x hang in there x

MrsE I am glad you are feeling better x I nipple watch too during the 2WW x

Mrscog Nothing better than make up dtd It's a win win situation

Thanks ladies xxx
I'm just getting upset cus I wanted the hope at least that I'd get a bfp this month.

Oh Nordic, sending hugs. I wish I could wave a wand and give us all what we're looking for.

Thanks treacle . Lots of love and hugs to you . I feel bad complaining I really shouldn't since I do have my ds and dd how ever hard won .just can't stand this pain it reminds me of every mc I've had . Have taken Panadol hopefully will take the edge off .

Don't be silly. You have every right to complain.
How about some co-codamol?

I'm so bloody upset again tonight. Money is shit as we spent way too much this month (thinking why save money when there's no baby) so going to spend the next few months getting back on track and not paying our wedding off (that was last august).
Work is shit and not knowing if im ovulating is shit.

Grr :( moan moan moan. Sorry.

Have hope my lovely. You can still get your BFP this cycle. Keep DTD just in case and you are in with the same chance as all of us (you may have ovulated or you may gear up for another try-either way, best to be prepared xxx

Thanks kitty, I shall keep dtd and try to keep calm haha.

So sorry you're both feeling down nordicmum and Treaclepie19. Try not to be negative nordicmum you never know! Also I don't think having children makes it easier or harder to cope with not being able to have a child you want. Its something we all feel is our right and should be able to do and it's tough when no matter what the reason we can't :(
Is there something fun you can do Treaclepie19 to give you a little lift? It doesn't have to cost a lot if money is tight but something to look for. I went to a spa day through groupon recently and it cost us £24.50 each. We had a lovely time and lots of chatting really made me feel more relaxed. Or a romantic meal in with you dh? Or something else that lifts your spirits, for me mostly it's going for a run!

treacle It sucks when money is tight! I know too well. There will always be bills, but there is more to life x That's what I keep telling myself anyway x Don't waste your time worrying! Everything will work out x

Right, ditto Pompatrol! I have also just spent a long time getting up to date and had written the word rollercoaster on my notepad. Can't read my handwriting and skimmed towards the end as really need to get ready for work tomorrow but here goes;

Notoast I am sure a couple of the ladies who got BFPs last month mentioned being windy so fx.

Cinnamon sorry about the bfn, fx it's too early. Loved the bleach experiment, made me smile. Oh, and we have been DTD have managed CD12, 16 and 19 so far. Plan to tomorrow evening even if it's another high.

Treacle really hope your cycle isn't annovulatory.

GrandHighWitch sorry about the bfn but again, hopefully just too early. Thanks for the new thread

Blueskygirl sorry AF arrived - enjoy a or two while you can.

Mrscog enjoy the hen do. Sure you'll find time to DTD.

Foscar Massive congratulations! Had written on my little list - AF and got to cross it off and put BFP, fab news.

and Madasacatter (love the name btw) congratulations on your BFP.

Laurano I've not really used OPKs, found it hard to do a hold/reduce fluids and didn't want to have to do them at work. For the first 4 cycles I was aiming for days 14-16 having a 28-30 day cycle and then temped for the last two months but was difficult the first time as it was my birthday and was drinking. I'm pretty sure I oved around day 18/19 last cycle...fx for a peak tomorrow!

Kitty may be you will be lucky and get an egg from each ovary

Cpt1sock the puking is promising!

Genni I would definitely accept the referal for tests and like others have said, hopefully you get your BFP before then.

Ooh and Spinning the reflexology sounds fab! I am having acupuncture and have my second session tomorrow.

Right, shattered and lots to do before bed.

Good luck to everyone POAS in the morning

Thanks Aprilray. Sorry to hear you haven't 'peaked' yet but hopefully you either will very soon or maybe the monitor missed it and counted it as a 'high' as it is the first month and it is still getting to know you so to speak.

Is there room on the bus for one more? I'm quite small and don't tend to pack much lies

Kittykat, age 34, TTC #1, Cycle #11, BFP due 2nd/3rd July......due to hugely irregular cycle I may get a couple of chances this month tries to be positive