July Bus to BFP land - Part 2 (and it's not even July yet!)

[TheGrandHighWitch]

Hello Ladies. Just starting this thread in anticipation of the other one running out of room as we were at 972 posts at the time of writing this:

Current stats afaik:

Foscar, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 26 June
cinnamongreyhound, Age 33, TTC#3, Cycle 1, BFP due 30th June
Notoasthere, Age 29, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due 2 July
TheGrandHighWitch, Age 29, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 3rd July
SurreyBunny, Age 34, TTC#2, Cycle 6, BFP 3rd July
MrsExtraOrdinary, Age 34, TTC#2 (DC6), Cycle 6, BFP due 3rd July
lp2014, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 5th July
Nordicmum, Age 39, TTC#3, Cycle 8, BFP 5th-6th July
BrixtonBunny, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 6th July
Mulberry82, Age 32, TTC #1, Cycle #1, BFP due 7th July
Cpt1sock, Age 33, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 8th July
MrsGingerbread, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP due ???
PickledPorcupine, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 8th July
Rainbow, Age 31, TTC#1 Cycle 3, BFP due 9 July
junkfoodaddict, Age 35, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due 9th July
Choccywoccydodah, Age 34, TTC#2, Cycle 10, BFP due 10th July
Pompatrol, Age 35, TTC#2, Cycle 2, BFP due 11th July
Scottishbride, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 11th July
MrsI86, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 11th July
Teadrinkerandatinker 20 TTC#1, Cycle 8, BFP due 11th July
Mistywillow, Age 32, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 12th July (ish)
Treacle, Age 24, TTC#1, Cycle 5 (mc cycle 4), BFP due July 12th
Ifallelsefailsdrinktea85, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 7, BDP due 12th July ish
Stepawayfromthezebras, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle#12, BFP due 12th July
Aprilray, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 7, BFP due 13th July
KittyVonCatsington, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle #8, BFP due 13th July
Kurama, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle#23ish (5th on clomid), BFP due 14th July
laurano81, Age 32, TTC#2, Cycle 8, BFP due 14-16th July
Wineandchoccy, Age 33, TTC#1, Cycle 9, BFP due 15th July
Brummiegirl15, Age 37, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 16th July
Toothachereturns, Age ??, TTC#3, Cycle 5, BFP due 17th July
Chillipopcorn, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle#1, BFP due 17th July
XBlueberry88x, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 16, BFP due 17th july
Becter1985, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 17th July
Kimswan1985, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 17th July
Sunshinesaz86, Age 28, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP Due 17th July
MaMaPo, Age 36, TTC#2, Cycle 2, BFP due 18th-19th July
LadyNovember, Age 25, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 19th July
lavender20, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 3, BFP due 20th July
Spinningirl10 ttc#3 cycle 12 bfp due July 20th
theonewiththenoisychild, Age 27, TTC#3, Cycle 2, BFP due 20th July
sparkle17, Age 29, TTC#1, Cycle 2, BFP due 21st July
Name ??, Age 33, TTC #1, Cycle #2, BFP due 23rd July
gennibugs, Age ??, TTC#1, Cycle 8, BFP due 26 July
BlueSkyGirl30, Age 30, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due 26th July
ChandlersFarang, Age 31, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP due ~ 28th July
1moretime, Age 29, TTC#2, Cycle ??, BFP due 28th-30th July
Siarie, Age 26, TTC#1, Cycle 1, BFP due End of July
Skippingthroughthefarm, Age 20, TTC#1, CD28 BFP due ???
MaybeILina, Age 31, TTC#1, Cycle 5, BFP due ???
MissMrsMummy Age 30, TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due in a couple of months
Fattycow, TTC#?, Cycle ?, BFP due ??
Mrscog, TTC#2, Cycle 1, BFP due ??
1moretime, TTC#?, Cycle ?, BFP due ??
EnglishGirlAbroad TTC #1, Cycle 10 (1after 2nd mc) BFP due ??

AF just arrived :

BlueSkyGirl30

Af has definitely arrived now, bang on cue at least. Didn't feel even remotely pregnant so not a surprise. But I do feel cheated if I don't even get one test in. At least it was 28 days this time and not 40ish or whatever it was last time.

Having another pot luck month this month. Got a holiday booked at the end of July and then hopefully moving when we get back.

The stress levels are going to reduce hugely soon. Dh has finally agreed to a ed phsych report for his son. Dss lives with us and has done for 4 years. It has been the hardest 4 years of my life. 3 of which I've didn't quite ill. All the problems I've got are exacerbated by stress. Last week I just knew I couldn't continue any longer burying my head in the sand. After speaking with them today they believe he's Aspergers. He's 14. I've found a weekly boarding school for him that specialises in that area and can give him the structure he needs. I've probably not mentioned this before, but with everything else going his behaviour has tipped the balance. The daily phone calls from school and constant lack of understanding. What do I know, I'm not him mum! No I'm just the woman who brought him up because his mother couldn't be bothered with the effort. I know he's going to excel in that structured routine. And then we can focus on him better at weekends. Everyone is on board, finally.

I'm going to have a different life soon. I feel like I can breathe finally.

Will be thinking of you tomorrow Spinning. My due date is fast approaching.... We actually fly on the that day so hopefully the excitement of holiday will get me through. And with a bit of luck I'll be upduffed before the second due date comes around.... Take it easy tomorrow. Enjoy some wine and chocolate.

Nordic, I really really hope this is it for you! Massive fx..

I'm soo bloody busy with work at the moment. It's good because I'm not thinking about stuff too much but Jesus I'm shattered! Off to bed I hop. Good luck anyone hoping to poas tomorrow

Oh MrsE- what a tough time! Hopefully a better quality of life for you all will be the result. Re- af, never mind. Fingers crossed for bfp soon xx

Surrey Sorry AF came
cinnamon Fx it's just a sticky bean getting comfy x

Good luck to everyone testing tomorrow x I have my pom pom's ready to cheer you on x

Thinking of everyone in their 2ww, may the days go swiftly by Fx for a bus full of BFP's & happy mum's to be x

2 sleeps to go !

Spinning & English hugs x

MrsE Sorry Af arrived! I'm glad your cycle returned to normal It's definitely a massive step towards a BFP x

Grand An opk line getting darker & temp hikes sounds very promising ! Yay ! Fx you get a BFP x

My 2ww starts tomorrow excited & nervous all at once â?¦Fx July will be a lucky month for us all x

oh lp You must be so excited x I really hope I get to POAS this month! Af got me last cycle when I was crashed into Thankfully I wasn't pregnant x

Fingers crossed for you laurano! Exciting! Xx

Sorry you're going through so much MrsE. Sending big hugs.

If I am not pregnant I will be really annoyed. I feel so so so sick tonight.
Nearly was sick when I brushed my teeth. Anyway, going to bed ready for trip tomorrow. Night all x

Lp I hope the rainbow you saw earlier was a sign of good things to come for you x

Fx Treacle I really hope you are pregnant x sweet dreams

Crap. Didn't DTD this evening and now I can feel OV pains but DH is asleep. DTD last night though and can tomorrow night, but that might be too late by then.... Should I wake DH is the question!!

Sending you hugs MrsE you've had a lot to contend withand difficult decisions to make, but it sounds as though things are starting to improve for everyone & most importantly your stress levels!

No AF for me yet.........but alas two BFN's! I actually had myself convinced I was maybe,possibly pg but after hearing results from GP it's very unlikely I have ovulated in the last three months. I think vodka will be consumed this weekend!

mrscog any chance of DTD in the morning?

misskitty fx af stays away x I had hormone tests done a few months ago. Was it the 7dpo test, that made you think you hadn't ovulated? My progesterone was 44.3 7po x

*7dpo - or CD 21 tests as they are also known asâ?¦but not everyone ovulates on CD14, so I had them done CD 25, as I ovulated CD 18

Yes Laura it was the CD21 tests, my levels are very low less than 10. Keep trying to reassure myself that they may be testing at wrong time, I have taken a couple of months off from OPK (because it turns me into a crazy lady lol) x

misskitty Perhaps they took it too early, & that's why it was lowâ?¦my acupuncturist said that it should be called a 7dpo test, not a CD 21 test, as women ovulate at different times in their cycle. Opk's would help narrow down when it occurs. Temping also shows that ovulation occurs. fx they took it too soon x

Me and OH have decided if its BFP i'll work through the PG and money go towards the baby :) but if i'm not we wont be trying again untill im at least 25 i said 30 but he is obsessed with me being PG by 25 he doesnt want to be an "old" daddy cos he's 27 atm but chances are ill be on a TTC in a few yrs when your all long gone

Sending love spinninv

mrse oh that all sounds terribly stressful. I hope that the new school and structure do him the world of good and it allows you all the opportunity for a break.

treacle I have everything v firmly crossed for you

kitty vodka always help I find - for a short time anyway!

tea you are both young, he certainly won't be an 'old' dad! My DH is 45 this year and I wouldn't say he was an old dad either

Morning all! My brown spotting seems to have settled, thank goodness. Off to soft play with ds today, not sure how I'm going to get on with the nausea but let's hope I don't lose my lunch im the ball pit!

Aaargh 12 dpo and back to a bfn :(. I can't stop peeing though so the test was only a few hours after going to loo . In any case feeling :( now !

I'm not too fond of soft play, when I take my neices and nephews notoast so I give my full sympathy with you having nausea-hope it goes well!!

V glad your DSS is being assessed MrsE as it will mean steps being taken to help him cope with day to day schedules. I've taught plenty of children with varying degrees of Aspergers but never in a home environment. No wonder you've been so stressed over the past few years-yet again, living up to your name!!! Sorry about AF but it is nice when the cycle is a little back to normal. So glad you have a holiday booked, hopefully that will be the catalyst needed to engage in regular and relaxing DTD

Hope you'll be okay today spinning (((hugs))) your way.

It's great you are taking about the future tea - something me and DH need to do more often! I love that I'm one of the 'old' ones at 33 (totally get what you're saying) but I don't regret waiting till now to TTC. Hopefully everything will sort itself out for you

My temp went down to 36.60 this morning (windows open and barely any covers is my excuse) but still just above what might be my coverline.
Let's see what tomorrow is. Other SYMPTOMS are tender boobs, although not sore nipples like last cycle and a pulling/burning sensation around left ovary area. Also managed to DTD this morning. FX!!!!!!

What did you pee on Nordic? Remember HCG levels take 48hrs to rise xxxx you are still v early. Foscars lovely line was at 18dpo so there is hope!

Fingers crossed kitty!

I had another temp spike today. My chart is starting to look a but triphasic like it did when I was pregnant. Clutching on straws here.

I wish I could poas!

treacle sounds promising! do you use ff to chart?

nordic but there's still a good chance if af isn't here, don't give up just yet

Thanks ladies. Dss's story is heartbreaking. I won't go into it too deeply but he arrived at our door without even a coat on, it was freezing. No suitcase with clothes, no comforting teddy, Nothing. It's been a very traumatic situation to deal with. To begin with his dad was guilt ridden his mother had abandoned him.(because his mother did the same to him) Dss sisters remained with their mum. Dh couldn't face what might be the matter. But he has now. I know money doesn't solve everything, but in our situation we are lucky enough to bypass the system that appears to be failing children with special needs. This new school will teach him how to cope and recognise what to do in social situations, where he previously has made bad choices due to his lack of understanding of others needs and feelings.

I think in our area specifically if they can sweep it under the carpet they will unfortunately kitty. There just isn't funding for anything anymore.