April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

[Cupcake92]

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

[Ducky23]

Haha lulu!!!

We had our friends 9 month old over the other day made me realise I need a completely new lounge he was grabbing EVERYTHING and throwing them or smashing them off the floor! Even grabbed DH phone and just started wacking it off the wooden floors

And the SCREAMING!!!! Omg the screaming

[LuluJakey1]

I don't know how we will cope. We are used to peace and quiet and doing what we like. How do you make them do things you want them to do?
He wouldn't eat what his mum wanted him to have.
He wouldn't walk nicely- kept running off.
Just said 'no' and smiled cutely if he didn't want to do it. DH tried being firm and then I tried but we kept giving in.
It was a real eye opener.
Think DH is considering leaving and getting himself a flat!

[Ducky23]

Hahaha

I'm sure when it's your own lulu it will all come together nicely he was probably misbehaving to test you and see what he could get away with

[Vikki1409]

Thanks every one new I wasn't imagining the line and over thinking gain as TTC seems to make us do :/

Well I havnt done another test Still feel as though AF going to spring upon me anytime should have been here by now so will wait until mon if still no AF wil test again eeeek fingers crossed u can't bare the disappointment :(

Baby dust sent to all TTC x x

[Ducky23]

Villi AF type cramps are a sign of pg I had them up until around week 6/7

[LuluJakey1]

Duckey Does it worry you what it will be like? I am worried about me and DH not having time for each other. Today we just lay on the bed and had a cuddle after he had gone, but if he was ours we would have been constantly with him.

I asked his mum if they ever get time together and she said they do lots of things separately - one stays with him while the other one goes out. Their parents live close by so they get nights out sometimes. She said he is a bad sleeper and they are always tired so often can't be bothered to go out.

DH and I don't have family here. His parents live in Yorkshire, as does his sister. I am an only child and my parents are dead. I am quite scared after today. We'll cope and we really want this but it seemed so hard.

[Ducky23]

Youl still be spending time together but as a family instead of a couple do you have any close friends nearby who hae children? They may be able to help out?

I'm very lucky and live very close to all my family who are all willing to help out.

Maybe I should be more worried though haha

[LuluJakey1]

I hope we get a well behaved one that sleeps well.

[Vikki1409]

Thats hopeful then ducky stomach cramps been ongoing a few days now and sore boobs about a week...

Im praying its all signs heading towards a strongbpositive :) as stilmconfused with th3 faint positive then negative x

[Ducky23]

Well I don't want to raise hopes as we know on here that it can go both ways... Buuuut, hcg levels do rise and fall quickly during the first few days. My BFP was soo faint and then had almost vanished the next day, infact, if I had used an ic I would be very surprised if it wasn't a BFN on there!

When did you last test?

Maybe test at least 2 days after using fmu and a fr?

[Bugaboom]

lulu don't worry. It's a shock to the system having a toddler in the house when you're not used to it. It will be different when you have your own. A 15 month old sees no danger, likes constant entertainment and is starting to realise he has choices- I.e. doesn't have to do something if he doesn't want to. That's a challenge for anyone and it sounds like you did great. My toddler regularly doesn't eat what I have prepared in his lunch so seriously don't worry. I'm jealous of his chip butty

[Vikki1409]

Sorry whats fmu and fr im new here and cant quite work out the terminations lol ooops sorry...

I last testd thurs- wed showed faint pos thurs showed neg. X

[Ducky23]

Sorry vikki, fmu is first morning urine and fr is first response.

When was AF due? after waiting that long id maybe say your ok to test again?

I don't trust the internet cheapies too much if thats what you were using

Fingers crossed!!

[LuluJakey1]

Thanks Bugaboom I did wonder if suddenly having a toddler had made it more extreme than starting with a baby and adapting gradually. we aren't a fussy, regimented pair, we don't live in a spotless house and are pretty relaxed and easy going and we thought that would work to our advantage with a baby because we wouldn't be stressing.

We weren't stressed actually, it was funny. But we were exhausted.

[Cupcake92]

Kitkat my worst week for ms was week 9 as I also had bad back pain!

Lulu bless u! It's harder when it's other peoples children than ur own! Trust me :)

[poppet85]

Lulu whenever Ive helped look after peopled kids I am always so tired after but I think it is harder when they're other peoples kids you cant be as bossy and they just think your being funny !!

[roastpots]

Hi everyone, Mind if I join you? I've got a 13 month old DD and we have just decided to start trying again. Feeling a weird mix of scared and excited by the propsect! Just got af for the first time since starting to try. Last time took 10 months of trying so we'll see what happens this time. Lovely to see how many recent BFPs there are on here.

[Ducky23]

Hi roast fingers crossed for you!

Hope everyone is having a good weekend.

I'm sitting watching 'dh' get wasted.
How lovely

[lillamyy1]

Welcome pots!
Vicki sounds like you need to test again! Is yur AF late?
Lulu your story made me laugh! I'm sure it's not nearly so bad when it's your own kid. I once heard someone say that kids are like farts - you don't mind your own but you can't stand anyone else's!!
Well I found my internet cheapies at last - they'd fallen down the back if my chest of drawers. Have tried one but still bfn. I hate waiting!! ??????

[lillamyy1]

[Cupcake92]

Go roast! And good luck ttc ! :) I'm on cycle 4 now!! :O hope it happens fast for u :)

N aw Ducky :( not good!! Get to bed and have some chill time. I've just managed to get DS to sleep, all full up with calpol and snuffle babe. Bless him. Btw this is the first time he's been asleep since 4am this morning!!!! :O god knows his much coffee I've drank today haha!!

[Cupcake92]

Hahahahaha !! Omg Lillamyy! That saying is hilarious!!! I've literally just wet myself :'D

I know how u feel about the waiting and wanting to know! How many DPO are u now?

[Ducky23]

Ohhh hope he sleeps better tonight cupcake! Poor little thing!

[Cupcake92]

I hope so too :p

Me and DH have decided in a couple years time to renew our vowels!! :) and actually have a proper wedding!! 3 course meal, after party, flowers the lot! We sort of just went to the registry office and had a quick marriage it was a spare of the moment thing and all our family weren't there so will be nice to share it with them this time :) can't wait!!
Going to start looking at venues!

[Ducky23]

Aww how lovely cupcake.

Did you not have a party last time?