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April TTC girls heading for June BFP bonanza!!!

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BearsInMotion · 09/06/2014 21:23

Here we go ladies!

Stats:
Updated

BFPs:
Ducky23 ttc#2, cycle 2, BFP on 17/04/14, EDD 28/12/15
Looking4rainbow age 29 will Fx be baby number 1 mmc Feb 2015 BFP 22/04 edd 02/01/15
Bugaboom ttc #2, cycle 1, BFP 28th April
Tori ttc#2, BFP 7June, EDD 14/2/14
RachieS
LuluJakey
Poppet85 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP 5th June EDD 9/2/15
Kitkatkaty87 ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP 7th June EDD 15/2/15

BFPs due this month...
BearsInMotion ttc#2, cycle 4, BFP due 28 June
Cupcake92 21yrs ttc #2 cycle 2, BFP due 26th May
KatoPotato cycle 3 OV on Weds 4th June with BFP due 18th June
MrsPopple29, ttc #1, cycle 2, BFP due 30th May.
Hippystar ttc #1 BFP due 31st May
Lillamyy1 - 30 yrs, TTC #1, cycle 2, BFP due 7th June(ish!)
Iamdivergent cycle 6 cd 11
Imustbecrazy26 TTC #2 cycle 1 BFP...
Hibou7688 BFP due...
Ticktick 31, #TTC#1 cycle 6, BFP due 3 June (?)
Macmissy, 33, ttc #1, BFP due 9 June
Me64, age 27, ttc #1, cycle 2, bfp due 21 June!
HullKat ?
Bradders85, 29, TTC #1, cycle 6, bfp due 25 June
Becter1985, 28,TTC#1,Cycle #3,BFP due.....

Think that's everyone!

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Cupcake92 · 14/06/2014 21:50

Well what a day it's been!!!
FIL went out this morning to do the shopping for Sunday dinner tomorrow, whilst he was doing that his wife hah packed EVERYTHING she owns and left.
She had left her key and a note saying she's left him.
And now DH is rather upset as he's worried about his dad, buts he's taking it out on me, DS and the kitten -_-
I know he's worried about his dad but I don't wanna sit here and be shouted at and moaned at. It's a Saturday night all I want to do is relax as I'm tired.
Rant over ! Haha! I seem to rant far too much :p
Hope everyone is well!!

LuluJakey1 · 14/06/2014 21:54

How is he taking it out on the kitten and DS cupcake?

Ducky23 · 14/06/2014 21:58

Ahh cupcake Hmm I should have known, our DH seem to have synchronised their periods!!

Yes that is a shitty thing to happen but there is no way he should take it out on you, ds and the kitten AngryAngryAngry

Hope everything sorts itself soon Hmm

LuluJakey1 · 14/06/2014 22:17

We have spent today gardening and sitting in the sun.

DH went to do the shopping and I said he HAD to get mint magnums, which I haven't tried yet and am really looking forward to. I don't think they have arrived in the north- east yet! They do not stock them.

He decided he was going to get in the garden wheelie bin to squash the stuff down so he could get more stuff in. It tipped over and he fell out onto the lawn. It was very funny but he is ok fortunately. Only his dignity was hurt. Grin

We ate tea outside because it has been so lovely. DH going to watch England match. I can't decide whether to go to bed or watch with him. He wants me to stay up but I could have the bed to myself for hours!

Cupcake92 · 14/06/2014 23:06

He's just been shouting at them both. Moaned at the kitten for playing with his tunnel lol!

He's cheered up a bit now and decided to play with the kitten now.
My DH is a very strange person haha!

And yes Ducky!! They are so synchronised!

LuluJakey1 · 14/06/2014 23:56

Do you worry about him lng term cupcake or do you know his moods well enough to just manage him?

I could not cope with that kind of moodiness and shouting. My dad, lovely though he was, was a shouter, and I just can't stand shouting. I thik it was all the shouting I heard when I was little.

I can argue with DH but I couldn't put up with him shouting nastily. I think that was why my moodiness scared me a bit earlier in the week. I just don't like emotional upset. Shouting makes me cry- it is like hitting a switch, I just cry. Often because it makes me angry. And I'm not someone who cries very often or easily.

Don't get me wrong, DH is no walkover, he is a very strong character and we have some fiesty discussions but they are discussions.

Anyway, your kitten sounds sweet. We have two cats. They catch bats in the garden at the minute so are busy out tonight!

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 02:26

Ergh my DH has got so drunk he's completely passed out on the sofa Hmm

He left all the doors unlocked in the house which is nice considering the time and the fact everyone is leaving the pub just down the street so there's some dodgy's about.

I got up to lock up and walked past a bag of sweets so had to grab some Blush now I just have a belly ache.

I usually leave all the lights on for him when this happens so he can noisily find his way to bed at stupid o clock but why should I waste my electric! He doesn't pay the bills!!!! So I gone round turning then all off. If only the bedroom had a bloody lock on the door! AngryAngryAngry

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BearsInMotion · 15/06/2014 05:57

Hope everyone is ok this morning!

DP can't drink due to his medication, am glad I don't have to put up with it like he has to put up with me on occasion!am actually quite enjoying him being away though Blush

Back to baby names, we haven't agreed on any boys names! I like biblical ones (Isaac, Jacob, Noah), but DP is having none of it. He likes Harris and Lewis but I'm not keen. Just have to hope if this BFP ever arrives that there's another girl on the way!

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Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 07:23

Oohhhh I like Lewis! Grin

I'm not really keen on Boys names either.

When are the next lot of BFP's due? Isn't there one due today?

I'm 12 weeks today! Shock Last week of the first tri! Confused

MrsPopple29 · 15/06/2014 07:23

Morning, hope today is a better day for those who needed to rant yesterday! (Sometimes a good rant is all you need to feel better!)

Our favourite names are Jack, Samuel or Jacob for a boy and Sophie or Emily for a girl. As both DH and I are teachers it's really hard to find names that don't remind us of naughty pupils! In my experience, boys called Henry, Daniel and Max seem to always be a bit of a pain (I'm sure it's just random but still puts me off!) whereas every single Madison, Ellie and Samuel I have taught has been just lovely. It's strange!

MrsPopple29 · 15/06/2014 07:25

Congratulations on reaching the 12 week mark Ducky! Can't believe how quickly that time has gone!!! Grin

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 07:32

Thank you Grin it does seem to have gone quick!!

I know what you mean about names!! All the boys name DH likes remind me of people I don't want to be reminded of lol! Grin

Cupcake92 · 15/06/2014 07:40

Lulu I have an autistic brother where his moods are 100 times worse than my DH's, so I guess DH's moods to me aren't too bad. I do get annoyed at him sometimes and I do sometimes think, "I'm sure that I could have a man who was cuddly and sweet all the time" but then I feel bad for thinking that :s I do love DH he can just be an ass sometimes haha.

Oh Ducky :( sorry to hear ur DH is being an ass too. Thankfully my DH hates to drink lots. But congrats on the 12 week mark!! :D when do U have ur scan?

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 07:54

It's on Tuesday and I'm terrified!!! Confused

LuluJakey1 · 15/06/2014 08:12

Morning everyone!

I have been given a little present this morning in bed; a catnip mouse, dropped on my pillow at about 5 am (by the cat, not by DH). She looked very pleased with herself and went off and got another one of her collection and brought that as well. Smile

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 08:27

Aww a catnip mouse!!! How lovely!!

I'm in a dilemma and I need to know what you lot would do in this situation.

DH is going to his parents for lunch today (if he ever drags himself out of bed) his mom is very wierd, she gets VERY offended by small things. DH has told her that I am going too.

My appetite is absoloutely messed up at the moment, she's told him what were having, I told him the other day I would not be able to stomach it but he did not tell her I wouldn't be able to eat it, he just said 'great' to her.

If I don't go, DH and mil will be in a horrible mood. If I do go I will either hVe to force myself to eat a little bit, possibly making myself feel ill for the rest of the day, sending mil in a mood, or, go and not eat and watch everyone else eat, also sending mil in a mood.

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What do I do? Hmm

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 08:28

Aww lulu, a catnip mouse! that's love! My cat would have never shared his!

LuluJakey1 · 15/06/2014 09:11

She brings them to the bedroom door every night and puts them in a pile. DH left the door open last night when he came to bed after the match and she brought them all in- the others are at the bottom of the bed too(6 in total).

The other cat just strolled in downstairs while DH was making tea. He has had a night hunting in the woodland and bridleway at the end of the back garden where he catches bats, birds, voles, shrews, mice, toads, frogs,rats, collects birds eggs from nests and baby birds.Sometimes he brings them home, sometimes we find them on the patio or in the garden. He scoffed a large breakfast and is now tucked up on his chair in the sun room fast asleep in total contentment.

LuluJakey1 · 15/06/2014 09:12

Ducky Can you plead ms and stay at home? Just have a nice time to yourself. Let DH have his huff .

bradders85 · 15/06/2014 09:31

Morning everyone, I'm a teacher too popple so I understand how we associate names to naughty kids!! If and when I get my bfp I already know my girls name - dp has accepted it will not change!! I used to love the house of eliott when I was younger and so due to that programme have always liked the name Evie :-)

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 09:45

Well I haven't had ms but woke up this morning and was sick!!! I might try it. It's his own fault! I told him I couldn't stomach it and he should have let her know then Smile

Aww I miss my cat, I do love them. The little weirdos! Smile

Ohhh I love Evie too. Grin

LuluJakey1 · 15/06/2014 10:05

bradders We have Evelyn and Evangeline on our list - to be shortened to Evie- also have Beatrice! (Talking of House of Eliott), Matilda (Tilly), Mia, Nina, Florence/ Flora, Grace, Anna, Katherine, India and Elodie.

Boys: Isaac, Theo, Guy, Kit, Louis, Geordie, Daniel, Charlie.

Mainly DH choices but I like them.

bradders85 · 15/06/2014 10:36

Lulu....I love Evangeline but I don't think he'd let me have that so may be just Evie! I love that show!! :) I like nina and florence too!

Ducky23 · 15/06/2014 11:47

Well that went awfully.

DH got up and told me to get ready to go to his parents. I told him I couldn't eat that and I said that to him and thought he would have told him mom but he never. He went in a massive strop and told me that I'm going and I will just have to not eat. So I got dressed and then he said fine if you don't want to go and has stormed out.

Don't know if it's hormones or whatever but I can't stop crying Hmm a lot of the times recently I feel that he doesn't even like me. And I don't think that he cares about the baby at all.

poppet85 · 15/06/2014 11:57

ducky I am sure its hormones and of course he loves you and baby . My dh is bit like that very sensitive when, it comes to his family .I get the feeling I MUST enjoy spending time with the in laws and that everything they do is always great . Heaven forbid I ever suggest anything slightly negative about his family !!
Hope it all blows over for you