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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Tww starts tomorrow!

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Birdtable · 31/05/2014 21:04

Anyone else?? Ovulation yesterday and today and been dtd lots!! Ttc #2 2cycle. Let's hope we get our bfp!!

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AngelsInWinter · 14/06/2014 08:39

More BFNs over here, as predicted! No AF though... Oh well, I am going to get very a bit drunk today and try to forget about all this!

ladyflower23 · 14/06/2014 08:58

Thanks birdtablw. Yes am still feeling disappointed but trying to keep in perspective that it's still early days and I just need to be more patient! I also hate not being in control so just hate not knowing what's going on! I have a horrible feeling I ovulated late and that's why af not here and I missed the egg coz I didn't keep the shagging going long enoug. Just want AF to get here so I can focus on next month. Agh!!!!!! Enjoy your party tonight angels. I think it'll be red wine and football for me. Am not really into it but no doubt dh will have it on the tv constantly for the next month. Will probably hamper my chances for next month as well!!

ClaireF2013 · 14/06/2014 10:52

Anyone else's husbands mega broody? Mine has turned into a real sweetie, he was before, anyway! But he is suddenly all for baby books, ovulation monitors and he has even been number crunching and said if I want to take time off work beyond maternity leave, that he will be able to support the same lifestyle we are having now. It is lovely to see! He has also joined a gym (he hates gyms!) and is taking his preconception vitamins and has put himself on a diet...! He is based elsewhere for work (comes home for a few days at a time when he isn't working), so is showing tons of determination without me even being there to influence him. It's so nice to see!! :D

pinpan · 14/06/2014 11:02

Awww, that's lovely Claire! I think my DH is keener on #2 than I am (I'm only put off because #1 was/is an epic non-sleeper and I remember how awful I felt when I was that tired - I'd like to get them when they're 18 months old and starting to talk properly, if only you could still have the relationship that you only get by doing the hard yards at the beginning), and he's a great Daddy. Heart warming stuff. Grin

I just did a hilarious online pregnancy test (yes!). It basically said, "ooh yes, that answer can be associated with being pregnant, or not," and then got to the end and just said "if you think you are pregnant, you should POAS." Helpful! I thought it would at least say, "well you might be pregnant, and you should POAS next week if AF doesn't come." Hmm

Thanks and Cake to everyone, regardless of stick outcomes. Have a nice weekend!

ClaireF2013 · 14/06/2014 11:17

Online pregnancy test!? How funny! If only it worked, would be so much cheaper and easier!

It is lovely to see him like this, I have always known he loves children, but it's all coming out now!! I am very broody, but I do get moments of fear-I guess that is normal! We don't have any children yet, and I have never been pregnant before, so really don't know what to expect. I'm very impatient, dying to get pregnant quickly, but occasionally have the odd thought of "what if I am horrendously ill with the pregnancy/miscarry/have an awful labour", but I guess if my husband had to go through it, he would be scared, too! I guess that is the same with you, pinpan, obviously they do help, but for the majority of the time, it is the mother getting up and doing the feeds, left exhausted etc.

It is really hard to not get carried away and start buying things-I don't want to be one of these couples that has everything but the baby, or to tempt fate by over-preparing, but it is so hard!!

pinpan · 14/06/2014 11:33

Open a secret pinterest account and just pin everything you think you want! Then you can go back and buy the things that you actually want/need closer to the time. Plus you can go and gloat over the pictures of tiny baby things when you feel extra broody. Wink

ClaireF2013 · 14/06/2014 11:41

That is hilarious!!! To be honest, it is more times when I see someone selling immaculate baby stuff on Facebook, that I think "maybe I could get that and keep it? It is a steal!" I have to stop myself!!

tezza1989xx · 14/06/2014 12:28

Hi.. i was due yesterday and have been cramping on and off since yesterday morning but nothing as of yet . Done a opk test just as I no u can use these as pt... can u see attachments? It's darker than yesterday... x

Tww starts tomorrow!
ClaireF2013 · 14/06/2014 12:42

Eeeeeek, Tezza, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

ladyflower23 · 14/06/2014 20:44

Hi everyone.
Ah Claire your other half sounds really lovely and supportive. Mine is really into the idea of a second one (but more patient than me!). He has said he is going to get healthier to try and make it happen. Guess that means I should to!
Tezza, not sure which line is which, but they look almost the same colour to me from the pic. Are you going to do a pregnancy test tomorrow?

newbie6 · 14/06/2014 21:05

Keep us posted Tezza! Well AF appeared today so at least I can now concentrate on this month! Good luck everyone else who had BFN's too x

ladyflower23 · 14/06/2014 21:48

Hi newbie, glad you can now get focused on next time. I'm still waiting for mine. The flame of hope is trying to reignite again today, but know realistically the chances of a late BFP are very slim.
Soooo I bought a Clearblue Advanced Dual Hormone OPK first cycle and used up most of sticks and did not use this cycle. Does anyone know if can purchase more sticks for the holder or do I have to purchase the whole contraption again?
Angels, hope you are having a good night and are managing to enjoy a few Wine

blankfornames · 14/06/2014 22:12

Hi Claire, I also also did that online pregnancy test this week! It gave you hope and retracted it again all in the one sentence!
Hope you have some good news to share tomorrow Tezza. Hard luck to the bfns, fx for next cycle

RedBunny · 15/06/2014 08:23

I wondered that too Ladyflower. I wanted to start testing in the afternoon too when I get high fertility. But I can't find any anywhere. Annoying!!! Last few times I've felt my ovulation in the morning. So I want to DTD in the morning. But I need to know when to cuz I can't be doing it every morning incase that's the one!

AngelsInWinter · 15/06/2014 08:43

Good luck Tezza :)

Glad you've got some closure, newbie.

Claire... No, my DP was definitely NOT like that! But he still managed to upduff me practically by looking at me, so I shouldn't complain! Wink

Yesterday was brill, gorgeous food and copious amounts of drink. Only downside is how sick I'm currently feeling as I need to pull myself together for Fathers' Day!

Still no AF but I've given up the testing for now.

Hope everyone else is ok!

tezza1989xx · 15/06/2014 10:17

Booo. It arrived about 15 mins after doing my opk test. FuNny as it was very dark compared to usual other than obviously ovulation. I didn't want to start doing pt till I've missed af for at least 5days lol. Good luck all .. I've told my bf that he has to try harder next month lol. But I'm not going to use anything ovulation sticks etc and just try to relax this time. 4th cycle now.. how is this so hard. Lol. How can people go out have a one night stand and fall pregnant. :/ xx

JaneyTea · 15/06/2014 10:18

Took a test this morning - BFN. It wasn't a surprise, but I still couldn't surpress a little bit of hope. I've been feeling awful these past few days, so hoping AF is on her way and that this overwhelming tiredness goes away.

Apparently it was World Gin Day yesterday - I didn't have any just in case. Might have to catch up today....mmmm gin.....

CatRen27 · 15/06/2014 17:07

Janey that's a fab plan! No af for me yet either but given up trying for now. Just want it to arrive and then start trying again!

Who is left?

1moretime · 15/06/2014 17:16

Hi everyone...sorry for anyone who has had a visit from AF!!
Good luck to those still waiting for her or BFP hopefully.
I dont know if i have posted on here...theres so many posts lol.
I am 12dpo today...first month of charting...ov on day 28...temps up then a drop at 6dpo...back up since & highest reading today. My boobs are aching started yday...had cramps since 2dpo. Xx

Katybear123 · 15/06/2014 17:17

Ok very confused and looking for some advice ladies. I poas fri bfn, fri lunch time I thought I had come on, v light bleed lasted about 4 hrs. Then nothing since pretty dry cm. now on day 35 of cycle but first time off pill. Was that a period do u think? Or an implantation bleed? Do I start counting again in cycle v confused?

AngelsInWinter · 15/06/2014 17:42

I'm still here!

Katy, as you've recently come off the pill I think there's just no "normal". It could be your body getting used to not having the Pill anymore. It could be an implantation bleed, too - but I'd leave a good week before testing.

It's my first month off the pill too. No AF (day 30). Going to test on Friday/Saturday if still no AF as that will be two weeks since I last dtd and I should get an accurate result.

1moretime · 15/06/2014 17:50

Hi Katybear i agree with Angels maybe leave it a week & retest hun. Preg is possible after just coming offthe pill though...i got preg first month of coming off cerazette :-)

Best of luck to you both Smile

Katybear123 · 15/06/2014 18:00

Thanks ladies that really helps. I will test again next fri and keep dtd till then, wish me luck. :-)

1moretime · 15/06/2014 18:25

Good luck & lots of baby dust sent to you xx

AngelsInWinter · 15/06/2014 19:19

I got pregnant straight after coming off microgynon in 2010 - never even had a period! So that's two of us :)

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