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The May bus continues for those who regularly check for their Cervical Lucas, take frolic acid, shout SYMPTOMS, stock up on more BastardSticks and just want to be upduffed by the green penis dragon!!

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KittyVonCatsington · 12/05/2014 20:46

We needed a new thread already!!

Old thread is here

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KittyVonCatsington · 19/05/2014 20:41

Please do have a cry and let yourself wallow. At least for a little while. I know you will be desperate to get back what you lost as quickly as possibly, as that is how I felt. I also went through stages of feeling hopeful and determined, to feeling panicky, to feeling distraught. Wonderful posters, like English, we're a great source of comfort. I hope we can be to you too.

As English said, count this as CD1 but really, you don't know when your HCG levels will drop and until then, you won't ovulate. You may go back to normal in terms of when you ovulate, plenty do. You may even be super fertile now and conceive straight away. You might not. I'm still waiting to ovulate and I miscarried end of Feb. Because of this, you will be on an emotional rollercoaster so you need to give yourself some tlc. Tonight, get yourself some hot chocolate, maybe a warm bubble bath and snuggle up to DH. A big virtual hug tooth

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MissMrsMummy · 19/05/2014 20:46

So sorry tooth but glad to read you are letting yourself be emotional today and start again tomorrow. Take longer if you need it though Thanks

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:46

Thank you ladies. x

Treaclepie19 · 19/05/2014 20:49

So sorry tooth, look after yourself xxx

JacktheLab · 19/05/2014 20:56

Oh toothache sorry to hear your news :(

silverine · 19/05/2014 21:29

Tooth I'm really really sorry for you! Sad Thanks I've been through this three times now but still don't know what to say in these situations - whatever anyone said to me seemed inadequate...

My last MC was very early like you, I'd had a negative the day AF was due and was Sad, then had the positive test 2-3 days after AF was due - that was Saturday and really Smile and then when i did another one on the Monday and it was negative Sad - so a real rollercoaster of emotions!... Was pregnant for just a few days and the GP didn't even count it as MC but as CP. But my next cycle was normal, so FX you get back to normal quickly too. Having said that though, even though physically was ok, mentally it hit me much harder than I thought it would and really crashed... So do take your time to recover! Thanks

So DH went to the hospital today. It's brain tumour so she has confused times and lucid times... She's in her early 50s so really sad. Not so much for me as I don't know her that well, but for DH and his mum... Thanks kitty and spinning for the Thankss.

Will try and dtd tonight but not counting in it... Still there is hope for this month, so look forward POASing soon after genni, victoria and spinning.

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 21:34

Thanks Silverine. Sorry you guys are going through the mill too, aside from ttc.
Life is a bugger at times. Thanks

silverine · 19/05/2014 21:46

Stats update with a little less fanfare... Roll on good news!!

BFPs
Starbright24 BFP 27th April
LadyCottington BFP 2nd May
Lindamagoo BFP 3rd May
MelMC73, BFP 4th May
Nyancat BFP 7th May
Mrs Cat Not TTC, BFP 9th May, No 1, 2 and 3 upduffed by local ginger Tom, while MrsE wasnt looking and busy packing. EDD sometime in June.
MrsGingerbread BFP 12th May
EnglishGirlsReturned (Zwanger) BFP 12th May
ChaircatMiaow BFP 13th May
Brummiegirl15 BFP 13th May
toots123 BFP 15th May
RetroHippy BFP 18th May

Patiently Waiting
xblueberry88xx, 25, TTC #1, Bike13, BFP 15th May
Chocoroc,TTC#1, Bike3, BFP due 20th May
NurseyJay 29, TTC #1, Bike3, BFP due 20 May-ish
MrBsMrsB TTC#1 Bike6 BFP due 20th May
theduchesse, TT#2 Bike5 BFP due 21st May
Mrshjb, 26, TTC#1, Bike4, BFP due 21st May
BearsinMotion, TTC#2, Bike3, BFP due 22 May
Fleurlur, TTC # 1, Bike1, BFP Due 22nd May
Madasacatter 24, TTC#2, Bike2, BFP due 22nd May-ish
Totorosez, 26 TTC #1 Bike#2 BFP due 23rd May
MrsExtraOrdinary,34, TTC #6 (DC2 with DH2), Bike5, BFP due 24th May
Becter1985 28, TTC #1, Bike2, BFP due 24th May
Flirty30s TTC #1 Bike#3 BFP Due 25th May
Broodysnoopstie TTC #1, Bike9, BFP due 25TH May
Gennibugs TTC#1, Bike5, BFP due 26 May
warriorbot TTC #1, Bike1, POAS due May 26
Victoria401, 34, ttc#1 Bike18 bfp due 26-27th May
HKat, 37, TTC #2, Bike4, BFP due 26th-28th May
Spinningirl10 TTC #3, Bike8 (post mc) BFP 28th May
MissMrsMummy,TTC #1, Bike7, BFP due 28th May
silverine 31, TTC # 3, (#1&2 MCs, no DCs) Bike11 (Bike9 CP/early MC), BFP due 30th May
Twojacks, 36, TTC #2, Bike6, BFP due 31st May
SurreyBunny 34, TTC #2 Bike5 BFP 31st May

On June bus already or joy riding on May for now
Viperama, 39, TTC #1, Bike 5, BFP due 1-5 June
NottaLotta ,TTC #1, Bike13, BFP due 2nd June
MrsVWSM28, 29, TTC #1 Bike #5, BFP due 3rd June
Fingercrossed36 Age 32 TTC #2 Bike? BFP due 7th June
Bellaboo88, age 26, TTC#1 Bike3, BFP 8th June
macmissy, 34, TTC #1, Bike2, BFP due 6th June
Waffleyversatile, 37, TTC#1 , Bike2, BFP due 9th June
Kurama, 26, TTC #1, Bike 21ish, BFP due 10th June
ChandlersFarang, TTC#1, Bike#3, BFP due 2-12 June (post-pill)
Hanflan, 29, TTC #1, Bike3, BFP due 12th June
Mistywillow17, 32 TTC #1, Bike2, BFP due 14th June
Owlie84, 30 TTC #1, Bike 12, BFP 14th June
MiniLop TTC#1, Bike1, BFP due 15th June
KittyVonCatsington 33, TTC #1 Bike6 (early mc cycle 3) BFP 16th June
Stepawayfromthezebras, 36, TTC #1, Bike 10, BFP due 15th June
Spotti, 23, TTC #1, Bike6, BFP due 15-20th June
toothachereturns, 36, ttc#3 Bike#4 (mc Bike#3), BFP due 16th June
MustBeDueSomeBetterFeet 36, TTC #2 Bike2, BFP due 17th June
TinyPawz, TTC#2, Bike1 (clomid), BFP due ?
NewlymrsB 26 ttc#1 Bike5, BFP due ?
Serenitysutton, TTC #1, Bike5, BFP due ?
PerpetualStudent, 27, TTC#1, Bike2, BFP ?
rambini, 25, TTC #1, Bike6, BFP due ?

Need updates
Bangonthedoor TTC #2, Bike5, BFP due 1st May
Alizeeod TTC #1, Bike?, BFP due 2nd May
Babblehag, 31 ,TTC #3, Bike1 BFP due 3rd May
Jo178, 38, TTC #2, Bike4 (cp 8th April) BFP due 8th May
Lizs1985 TTC # 1, Bike?, BFP 8th May
Groovyhatfeatherboa, 29, TTC #2, , Bike6, BFP Due 9th May
Sammyj85,TTC#1 Bike3, BFP due May 10th
tobiano - 35, TTC #4, Bike1, BFP due 11th May
climbergirlali TTC #1, Bike#1, BFP due 16th May

gennibugs · 19/05/2014 22:24

Tooth Thanks

Thanks for the stats silverine. Sorry to read about your news re hospital.

silverine · 19/05/2014 22:29

Thanks genni. That's life hey... Hmm

MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/05/2014 22:31

Now look here ladies, I'm a bit dubious about this bleach business! I felt sick earlier today and was telling myself it's pre af hormones, due Saturday, now just had a wee before bed and my lord I thought the bubbles down the bleachy loo were going to erupt over the edge!!!!!....but you see I have not had sex even once, not even a sniff of a little swimmer, no not me, nadda! So I give you a phantom pg! I blame my cat!

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 23:12

Lol MrsE. Dont dispel the myth! Grin

spinningirl10 · 20/05/2014 10:03

Morning Grin

7dpo, far too early to poas!!

Thanks for stat update, there don't seem to be too many of us left on here, seems very quiet!

gennibugs · 20/05/2014 10:08

Morning all.

7dpo like spinning. felt very sick this morning but think it was more tiredness than a symptom if I'm honest.

I really want to poas. I'm going to hold out though as I only have a frer and don't want to waste it.

gennibugs · 20/05/2014 10:09

Oh and someone finally got back to me re reflexology so will give that a bash for June, if nothing else it should relax me!

spinningirl10 · 20/05/2014 10:23

Reflexology sounds good Genni, make sure you report back. I keep thinking about it! I have a stash of ic but trying to hold off till at least 10dpoGrin

HKat · 20/05/2014 10:25

I'm still here! In the dreaded 2ww...I'm not sure how many dpo though - I had the smiley face last Weds, but don't know when that means I actually ovulated - if at all! If I take it as 24-48 hours from then, I guess I'm 5 or 6 dpo - too early to POAS yet, though I'm sorely tempted! Tooth, Flowers

spinningirl10 · 20/05/2014 10:25

Actually with af not due till next wed, 10 dpo is prob too early to poas!

gennibugs · 20/05/2014 10:27

I reckon Ill cave too around 10dpo spinning lol - I didnt order any ICs this month but now kind of wish I had so I could merrily poas Grin

I shall report back re the reflexology. Shes fully booked so doesnt look like I can get an appointment until 2nd week of June annoyingly.
Im convinced my stress levels are a playing a big part in ttc so Im really hoping this will help that.

Its quiet on here - I guess a lot of people have moved over to June now.

victoria401 · 20/05/2014 10:44

I'm still here too! Af due next Monday or Tuesday. Nothing much to report. Boobs have been sorer this month post ov. Good sign of prog levels I think? Today I'm also feeling emotional and weepy. The joys of hormones eh?

With each month that passes I am less convinced it will happen though, if you know what I mean? told you I was feeling hormonal!

xBlueberry88x · 20/05/2014 10:47

Im still here to 5/6 days late and fed up blahhh

Spose I should test again even though I know it'll be negative

So sorry Tooth Sad

JacktheLab · 20/05/2014 10:48

I'm here but nothing much to report really Hmm

I think I ovd end of last week so ages to go.....

spinningirl10 · 20/05/2014 10:56

Ooh Victoria, you mentioning boobs has reminded me that I couldn't get comfy in bed last night!! I sleep on my front and my boobs felt uncomfortable and were getting in the way.....symptom?!Grin

victoria401 · 20/05/2014 11:02

Don't start that spinning! I'm NOT SYMPTOM SPOTTING THIS MONTH! Everything is just "hormones" this month and if one of them is hcg all the better

Chococroc · 20/05/2014 12:08

Looks like I'm off to the June bus, AF arrived bang on time :(

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