If at first you don't conceive...shag, shag and shag again. BFP due in April.

[DrewsWife]

Well here we are. Again!

Month 5 ttc #2 with a nearly 18yo DD

Probably, my cycles are so long I always skip a month ahead!

Bought a first response today :-( my first one ever. Cross.

I used a first response and it was bfn wait a few days x

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I'm waiting drew I really don't want to see a bfn. Flushed today's fmu. Discussed with DH this morning and he doesn't think we should use it. Wait another few days as in theory the spotting I always get pre-af should start soon. On crotch watch already! DH thinks I've looked into symptoms too much now and I'm like a crazy person! Need to take a chill pill!

Dreamt I got a bfp with my stick last night. For some reason I woke up thinking I should definitely not poas today! Can't bear the dream not coming true!

Early testing is more stressful than its worth. Even if its neg you'll convince yourself it could still be pos later.... just prolongs the agony! I've given it up. x

PMSL at crotch watch!!!!!

Rpopz, totally agree. This month I'm not testing until af due. Stressful and expensive.

Well my test doesn't have a use by until the middle of next year. I hope I get to use it way before then tho!

Wednesday can't come soon enough!

How are you feeling Victoria?

Any sign of anything either way??

I've got another 12+ days to wait!!!

I feel ok. Thought I felt nauseous in Tesco earlier but that might have been the 2 glasses of wine last night couldn't resist. Just done some gardening and got a bit dizzy, but not used to the hard work! I've usually got more pre af symptoms by now. No spotting, no cramps. I'm very ratty with DH today but he is being a pain! I've no idea what to expect....

Victoria. When do you test??

We are booking midwife tomorrow. DH has already picked a pram. He is beyond excited. I just want to be able to eat. Priorities eh?!!

12dpo today. Due af Wednesday. If nothing Wednesday then as long into the future as possible. I'm not hopeful though. You kind of lose hope after so long. I don't think this must be my month, I say I assume this month will be the same as every other :-( god how depressed am I today?

How are you feeling drew? Very sick I gather? X

Lol Drewswife! So funny.

Aw Victoria.... I really hope this is your month too. x

I'm back at work tomorrow after 11 days off. I'm having wine to cope. Might regret this in the morning

cd5... .. alcohol free from tomorrow on!

Don't lose hope. We only managed to dtd 2x. DH was really unwell.

I felt sooooo down about it. I actually think I felt mad at one point. My first test was bfn and I felt so negative about it that I wouldn't test until tooth nearly lost her marbles.

Now I'm fat and homicidal with a DH who has decided to go pay deposit on pram before I've booked the effing midwife. I'm crotch spotting as I'm convinced it's all a dream.

I can't eat yoghurt . I want yoghurt. My boobs are like bricks. And I'm exhausted.

Please don't lose hope.

We have been trying and this was cycle 5 for us. The one cycle was dtd 2x. We used some ph balancing gel for my who ha... And tomorrow in not allowed a lie in as we HAVE to get to docs as matter of urgency. I'm probably going to lynch him .

So today I have cramps but no spotting (have creamy cm instead!), feels like food is getting stuck at the top of my throat and boobs are tingly but look normal. The wait is nearly over...

Sounds great!

But I can't get my hopes up. Keep feeling like maybe I got ov wrong and I'm not due for another week or something!

Fingers crossed for you Victoria401, tingly boobs MUST be a good sign

Am 10 dpo here but feeling totally symptomless :(

My only thin hope is I don't feel the af coming either and I usually do have cramping.

Plus I'm not spotty not grasping at straws at all

af due 27 April, aaargh!

Kinda sounds promising Vic!! Can understand not wanting to get your hopes up though. Really hope this is your month

Drew why can't you have yoghurt??? Sorry you're feeling sick. I think the fact you only dtd twice this month makes me feel worse - all the shagging we've been doing!

Is everyone back at work today? How depressing is it after a long weekend!

Someone I know has got a clearblue digi that expires next month. I'm picking it up in a bit. Fx I can use it! I've actually started imagining and kind of pretending I'm preg. Its not going to be good for my mental wellbeing if I'm not! DH is deffo hoping I am so he doesn't have to do his SA next week!

That's a random thing to have hanging around haha! I've got everything crossed for you

Congrats drewswife :)

Mikeysmum, long time no see!

Ive made up my mind, I'm poas tomorrow morning!